I want to be beaten up by my boyfriend. How do I tell him?

Ok, I'm nuts blah blah.. save me the speech.

Now, this guy im seeing.. He is so hot but not a sadist like I want him to be. I'm a masochist and he doesn't know that and he doesn't expect that from me, since I am petite, he is always gentle with me.

How do i tell him that i want him to beat me up, tie me up, cut me, slap and spank me? (Not necessarily during sex). I don't mean like using all his force of course... because I would die.. I mean just enough to give me some sort of pain.

I have been like this forever but I am too scared to tell any guy this, is there any way I could even tell without freaking them out?

Would a guy who isn't into Bdsm be willing to try it?
I would do it (willingly/unwillingly) and stay in the relationship.
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I would not do it but still stay with her.
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I would leave her because of this.
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  • shit all over his manhood pride

  • Take up kickboxing classes with him

  • Tell him

  • this is something i will never do, i mean never beat you and i don't want to have a girlfriend like you... really sorry.
    now to answer your question, just tell him this:i am a sadomasochistic person, so i like pain, would you please beat me?

  • He won't do that

  • as long as you don't go crying wolf, claiming he beat you, when you WANTED it..

    then that's not cool

  • Fucking Hey what the hell? So you would rather be a guys punching bag then be with someone who would actually love and respect you? Say if you want him to beat the crap out of you why stop there ask him to murder you while your at it. And yet I always hear girls say they don't hate nice guys well your proof they do.

  • Dome a favor, stay far from me.

  • I'd do it.