If a guy is able to cum and then get hard again and cum again, back to back, does that mean the sex is good?

Or not necessarily?

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  • Generally speaking, after an ejaculation, guys entered the "refractory period" aka go soft.

    And this period, time when he's soft, varies based on many factors.

    Typical is age. Usually youths in his 20s and 30s may require only an hour before he can get hard again. Compared to guys in his late 40s or older may take a day.

    And food and drug may help him recover. That little blue pill or other aphrodisiac may short that period.

    And of course, if he's "in the mood", he may go many rounds with short refractory periods. A typical example is a virgin guy's wedding day. Many goes up to 10 rounds that day.

    Sex in itself is good for guys as long as he cums. Hence your question "sex is good" is not actually applicable because guys enjoys ejaculation aka orgasm. (girls may get wet but not orgasm)

    To conclude, refractory period varies based on many factors and great sex may still keep him soft after a day. And him fucking back to back is likely because he's in the mood and usually when he's enjoying the person, on top of the sex.

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  • Well my own experience is that girls haven't let me orgasm them as many times as I would like too. At times it has seemed like it could go on forever but after 4 or 5 they have stopped me.

    So the sex being good is that from the girl view or the guy view? My experience indicates no from the girl side but then I have read of girls claiming a dozen or more so maybe I haven't hung out with the right kinda girl. Dunno.

    I am capable of continuing - ejaculating but staying hard and carrying on thrusting to another ejaculation. At other times I have softened but the girl has done something or said something that has made my penis hard again. I rolled off one girl and she did some magic and I was hard and back in her in 30 seconds. Maybe it was as much as a minute.

    I can also maintain my sexual excitement. As I approach ejaculation I egg myself, telling myself i need to give her another load. Girls can really help to maintain sexual excitement past ejaculation.

    But it does come down to - for me - the girl being exciting.

    So YES if I come back to back then YES the girl has been exciting and therefore YES the sex has been very good.

    At the end of the day if a girl gets you hard again sooner than you expect to then she is IMPRESSIVE.

    Sounds like you were.

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  • In general, it has less to do with her and more to do with the guy, and how high his sex drive is, how fast his recovery time is (this varies from guy to guy, and also varies for the guy from day to day, depending on his diet, hormone levels, amount of sleep, etc.), and how many times he can go in a day, which also varies from guy to guy. Obviously, good sex will be a contributing factor, but not as big as the other factors. Importantly, if a guy can't go again and again, it likely has little to do with her and more to do with him - he's probably not able to do that with anyone. Every guy has his own "normal", and every guy's "normal" will vary somewhat from day to day.

  • It could be. I know if I'm with a girl and we experiment and try different things, I can go all day. Every guy is different though. Some guys need a few minutes, some, it might be a couple of hours.
    If a guy can do that, it's probably because he's either enjoying himself or he has a high sex drive.

    Usually, if a girl let's me explore her body, I could have sex with her all day without much time in between to recharge. I like to go around the world, you know!
    But yeah, it really depends on the guy.

  • Not necessarily. Until recently I could main the same erection for at least two and usually three orgasms. Now it's usually two and occasionally three.

  • The times I've been able to do that, it had more to do with how turned on I was at the moment rather than how good the sex was.

  • Does for me, but I'm not prepared to say that's the case for every man. The more "she" has me worked up, whoever she is, determines whether I'm going to be able to go three times or a dozen. Eventually I'm dehydrated and can't ejaculate anymore but I'm still able to have a dry orgasm.

  • No. That means his body releases less prolactin after orgasm then other guys

  • Means he’s probably a sex addict if he isn’t your husband

    • Wait why?

    • Why? Because he can’t stop having sex

  • I have never known a guy that could do that

  • Just means he has a very healthy lumbago

  • I don't believe the two are related. Some guys may be ready to go again quickly and others not.

  • Not necessarily.

  • No, not necessarily.

  • Either that or he doesn’t masturbate and his penis has a Lot of sensitivity. More so if he’s not circumcised

  • Not necessarily it could just mean he was really horny

  • Thats less to do with "sex is good" and more to do with his overall health

  • All depends on the guy. I have Hyperspermia which means my body makes an enormous amount of ejaculate/cum. I can usually cum 4-5 times during a single sexual encounter, 4-5 times a week.

  • That and maybe very horny

  • No that just means he can do that I do that too and the sex isn't always great but it's fair enough to keep me erect

  • could be

  • I do that a lot

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