If he fucks me, does it mean he actually likes me?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Men and women are very different, and one of those differences are the way our brains work with sex.

Most women can't have sex without falling for the man emotionally, even if they initially intended only to have casual sex with no emotional connection. Because of this, most women only want to have sex with men they're in a romantic relationship with (with rare exceptions for incredibly attractive men).

Most men are very different - men can easily separate sex from romance/emotional connection, which means men are able to have casual sex without getting emotionally attached. This doesn't mean that men can't or don't fall in love - they definitely do - but men are SEXUALLY attracted to far more women than they are emotionally attracted to, which means they're interested in having sex with far more women than just those they are romantically attracted to.

For this reason, you absolutely CANNOT use a man's willingness to have sex with you as a measure of his romantic feelings for you. Men will fuck plenty of girls they have no romantic interest in. Instead, what tells you how he feels about you is how he treats you OUTSIDE the bedroom, and even more specifically, how he treats you when sex isn't likely to happen.

If a guy only wants to spend time with you when sex is likely to happen, and as soon as you have sex, he's out the door, then he's just using you for sex. If he's only nice to you, or only pays attention to you, when his chances of having sex are high, and he ignores you or is mean or indifferent to you when sex isn't likely, then you know he's only interested in sex. On the other hand, if he treats you well all the time, and enjoys spending time with you and doing things with you even when sex isn't likely to happen, then chances are high that he has real romantic feelings for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Really?

If he fucked you, it means that he was horny and you were willing to drop your panties. It means nothing more than that. I hope you made him wear a condom. He has probably had sex with many other girls who were just as easy as you, and he could easily have an STD.

If he is willing to date you and wait for sex, it means that he respects you. If he continues dating for more than three dates without getting sex, it means that he probably likes you. If you are willing to impose those conditions and make him wait, it means that YOU like you.

[yolo18]

Nope. If he's down to do sex with you is because he find you attractive to an extent. It doesn't mean he loves you or have feelings for you. Be prepared because 2 things might happen: he will either sleep with you and stop there. Or he might actually grow feelings for you. Put your feelings aside if it's a hook-up. Is the best advise I can give you.

[Siren777]

No. He can f you without any liking you and think it's sex only. Does he prove he likes you? Does he say he like you? Men are literal. They mean what they say, like when they say they don't want a relationship. They mean they dont want a relationship.

[Red_Arrow]

It means he actually likes to fuck you at least once.

[ohshee]

To be honest with you the only thing that it means is it is horny at that moment now in the way that he makes love to you that will tell you if he likes you if you just f***** you gets off puts his clothes on it makes up an excuse why you has to leave he just using you so I think what I would do is find out beforehand you don't need to get laid to know if a guy likes you or not they can prove it to you before you let him get in your pants

[CriticalDiscourse]

It verifies he wants to fuck you, nothing more.

[Truthatanycost]

Having one doesn't mean giving one.

[karenchick111]

Definitely! You can definitely make a relationship out of this if you want to. Let him know how you feel about him. Show him that you are girlfriend material that you can cook and clean for him. Good luck.

[David92506]

Maybe 50 years ago it meant that he really likes you.
Today, who knows. Even if he does like you, next week he might change his mind.

[JPrez]

The odds would not be in your favor lets just say.

[kkirk4442]

Fucking a girl foes not mean he likes you. All if means is that he likes fucking you. Some guys will only fuck girls they like, and other guys will fuck any girl who will let them, whether they like the girl or not.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

No. What about past girlfriends etc? Do you think cheating men loves everyone woman they stick thier penis into? Love is more than just sex.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Their*

[Stevepro68]

That's not the way to tell.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Well, he likes to fuck you at least.

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

Sex itself can be meaningless... Depending on the people involved.

[VertigoJ]

Not always, unfortunately. It can on occasion mean the opposite. It's all contextual and you will figure it out.

[Joyce4u]

No, he was just horny

[sheikalana]

Not necessarily. But it means he's attracted to you.

[Walamagicc]

It depends on how he feels about you. Just because y’all had sex doesn’t mean he likes you. It’s possible to have sex and not have strings attached but every man is different.

[bowenw]

He likes the sex but you can't know if your relationship will become something serious from that alone. Try spending time with him where there is no sex and see how he behaves. If he just wants to get you into bed then there is likely no chance he's interested in anything more.

[bellybuttonlint]

If a guy fucks you the last thing on his mind is whether he likes you. I've never heard of this. If a guy fucks you then he's just getting one off and you were available.

[Josh4206]

If you did it in the first date it might as well already be over, but if it was a while in there's still a chance it could turn into something

[Asker]

How long in shud it be before we do it?

[Josh4206]

in my opinion at least a couple months after you start talking

[Kabluie]

I don't sleep with anyone who I'm don't like in some way, so yes.