If most girls can't orgasm from penetration, then when the hell are they supposed to orgasm?

[Anonymous]

When is a girl supposed to orgasm if most don't from penetration. Is it that she cannot orgasm just from penetration or is it that all girls can orgasm from penetration as long as they have had enough foreplay? I am so confused, please explain. lol

[AustinMan]

Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG!! Did it get you to the mountaintop?

[Red_Arrow]

Stimulation of the clitoris. If a guy is conscientious, he will stimulate that a lot. Even when in actual intercourse, he caqn rub his pubic arch against her clitoral area. He can also use his fingers to do that in certain positions. Even women who can easily orgasm from penetration, get a better orgasm when the clitoris is targeted.

[NakedDancer]

The vast majority of girls women females approaching 80% required stimulation of theirclitoris to reach orgasm. The reason is as follows. If I rubbed your balls in your scrotum and let them win when you reach orgasm? Probably never. But if I suck your Dick you'd reach orgasm. Well, the embryologic equivalent of the penis in a female is the clit. That is where she feels pleasure sort of like the mushroom part of your penis. That's why foreplay is important. If you stimulate by rubbing touching licking the girls clit to the point where she is nearly ready to reach orgasm, then the added stimulation although minimum achieved by penile insertion will cause her to reach orgasm. If you have ever watched a video porn, you see the girls often rubbing herself while the guy supposedly is fucking her. That is so she can feel good. Now, how do I do it? I insist that the guy licked me all around flicking up and down all around my clitoris until I reach orgasm no matter what he wants. After I reach orgasm and he then penetrates me wow does that feel great. I have multiple orgasms. A guy and a girl a different a guy reaches orgasm and he wants to stop. A girl reaches orgasm and she wants to fuck. Any further questions direct to me via message

[mobbie32]

Then why do women love big well endowed dicks

[samhradh_leannan]

It depends a lot on the individual, which is part of what makes it confusing. There is no rule. You have to figure out what works for the specific partner that you're with at a given time. It's always a learning curve to figure out how to please a new partner.

Some girls do orgasm from penetration, some do sometimes but not always, and some never orgasm from penetration. It's up to you to communicate with your partner about her needs and what works for her. You can use oral, fingering, or toys to help her get off if penetration doesn't do the trick.

[samhradh_leannan]

Can I ask why you don't like oral?

[Asker]

If I rap rubber to protect my genital than what stops an std from reaching my mouth?

[samhradh_leannan]

STDs are a valid concern, but if you are having sex with a trusted partner and you've both been tested, you don't have much to worry about.

[NakedDancer]

I agree entirely. And by the way I will not give a blow job to somebody who will not go down on me

[samhradh_leannan]

@NakedDancer I don't think I could be with someone who wasn't willing to go down on me at least once in a while.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the other women here. Clit stimulation is the general way that most women achieve orgasm. In many positions the guys pelvis rubs at just the right angle. But some women do have orgasms from penetration. Studys show that the nipple stimulation can lead to orgasms also. But most importantly women are mental creatures. Get us there mentally the physical will be easy!

[Asker]

What will get you there mentally? Can you give me some examples?

[Opinion Owner]

Flirting , dirty talk and other foreplay. You have to learn what turns her on.

[redeyemindtricks]

You are thinking only in terms of mechanical inputs.

The problem is that girls aren't machines. Mechanical inputs are, like, 1 percent of the equation. Even that might be an overestimate, honestly.

I mean, guys, being "good in bed" has almost nothing to do with the stuff that you actually physically do. Y'all know that, right?

[Asker]

Is it really 99% psychological? Like what give some examples?

[redeyemindtricks]

I mean, honestly, the best response to this is Satchmo's:
izquotes. com/.../...www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1852627-how-long-does-it-take-you-to-cum-on-averageread (mho comment) https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q1852627-how-long-does-it-take-you-to-cum-on-average
Read that account, and notice how all the things that makes it hot are psychological.

[redeyemindtricks]

Ok, well, that didn't format correctly... lol The link works. In the mho comment for that link, I wrote a little vignette, about a hot moment between me and my husband. Read it, and notice how all the things that make it hot are psychological things.

[Adekae]

You have to rub her clit. The majority of women can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Look this up. Girls can orgasm WITHOUT penetration actually, with just the clit alone. But having something inserted makes it better.

[Cmasterson]

A lot of orgasms happen through clitoral orgasm, not always when you penetrate a girl you're hitting or reaching her clit.

[Errhh]

Maybe because the clit.. Is outside? Rather than IN side? ... So basically just rub the right way and your girl will orgasm without you ever even going IN at all...

Tats what I think.

[leise]

The almighty clit

I think the clitoral orgasm is much better than the vaginal
But maybe thats just me

[Bobba_Fett]

During the head you give them before penetration.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25276-how-to-give-oral-to-your-woman-101

[Asker]

What if I don't like giving head?

[Bobba_Fett]

Tools, amigo. Get yourself a g-spot vibrator with a clit tickler. Get one that is smaller than your johnson, and don't forget to use plenty of lube.

[daviakitty143]

clitoral stimulation, duh

[MrNameless]

1. Always do foreplay. Kiss her over her body, then gradually go down to her thighs etc. Girls aren't ready right away like guys. They're like a stove that will heat up over time.

2. Most girls have a hard time getting vaginal orgasm. Stimulate the clitoris when you're penetrating. Some positions are better than others for that.

3. Oral sex. Lick Around the clitoris first cause some girls are sensitive.

[JusttryingtohelpU]

G-spot stimulation. Look it up.

[Asker]

Just with fingers right? Can all girls have a spot orgasm?

[JusttryingtohelpU]

I don't know about all girls, but in my experience, they love it. Make sure they are wet. Middle and ring finger in a "come here" motion. You'll notice the spot starts to swell up a bit. Massage that spot. Pay attention to what she does. It will feel like the vag is sucking your fingers in and then it'll start to spasm. When they are squirming, rest the palm of your hand on the clit without pulling your fingers out (it can be too much if you keep going... unless they ask) Pay attention to her breathing. You can lick her clit while doing this, though it can become too sensitive after a while. Also you can stack the orgasms if you slow it down right before they reach it (don't stop just slow it down) multiple times and then make them cum hard. They may get frustrated if they just think you are being a dick though.

[JusttryingtohelpU]

Oh, you can also angle them so your penis hits that spot during penetration.

[Berethor]

Male orgasm had always been much more important for reproduction.

[idkwtftoputhere]

lmao that has nothing to do with the question

[Cjanes]

Yeah but how many people have sex solely for reproduction

[Berethor]

My point is that it's very likely why females have such an hard time to have orgasm from sex, and there are some females that can't have orgasm at all.

[naturallywonderful]

I think it's reported that half of girls don't orgasm in most sexual encounters so really who the hell knows lol

[Asker]

And you girls are okay with not org admins every time? Why?

[AleDeEurope]

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[Lindseytay]

😂😂😂😂

[Supergirl0812]

Clit play

[TripleAce]

Some women can, some women orgasm easily from internal stimulation. But most have a hard time.

She will orgasm from sex if youve warmed her quite well

[Jbgurl20]

well, you need to give her clit a little focus. If you're penetrating her you should at least try to touch her body or rub her clit. She'll get an orgasm for that I'm sure. if you can't do it at the same time then give time for an oral. Try to lick her clit, she'll go crazy hahaha

[meatballs21]

Oral? Manual stimulation? Manual stimulation combined with penetration?

Some girls just can't climax from penetration no matter what. Others will be surprised with themselves if they've had enough of the right kind of foreplay and arousal.

[rgb008]

Oral lol.

[Asker]

But many guys don't give oral, so what can a man do then?

[rgb008]

I don't know use a vibrator.

[Thatguy321]

When your not home, with your electric tooth brush.. keep extra batteries under your sink I guess?

[KawaiiPie67]

Yeah, she might need lots of clit play.

[atomique]

Use the magic touch in other places.

[Tarvold]

No no no no no...

This is a bullshit myth.

Most girls can orgasm from penetration. In fact, the vast majority can. The problem is twofold - 1.) society has conditioned women to not be in touch with their own sexuality so that they don't know how their bodies best respond to touch and orgasm, and 2.) men, as a general rule, suck in bed and don't know how to properly engage a woman's mind and body to help facilitate her orgasm.

Here's a hint, if you're thinking in terms of "enough foreplay", then everything you know about female sexuality is wrong and you need to relearn everything.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

I don't know but a lot of girls do orgasm during penetration. Specially if you are able to make them orgasm during foreplay.

[scgurl2016]

Chocolate cake

[Asker]

Lol but most guys don't give oral? I personally don't like oral, could a girl still orgasm from rubbing?

[Octavius]

The chocolate cake is giving her oral pleasure. Taste bud orgasms.

[Mark987]

They can but takes a lot of work. I usually go the fingering way... and also by cowboy

[carinerose]

Some girls DO orgasm just from penetration, but it's pretty rare and tbh it never happened to me. Usually, to orgasm, the clitoris has to be stimulated during the penetration. You can do it with your fingers, or let your girlfriend do it for herself. That and of course, a little foreplay enough to get her wet and excited.

[Anonymous]

Penetration ALONE. You stimulate the clit during penetration (many more can cum from this) or get her off before starting penetration (ditto).

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the g-spot isn't hit through penetration, which is why I prefer clitoral stimulation to achieve my climax. I usually prefer oral (for clit stimulation), orgasm and then penile penetration, it feels really good. I would still keep trying, I'd like to experience an orgasm via penetration.

[Asker]

Let him use his fingers to stroke your gspot

[Opinion Owner]

He couldn't find it that way.

[sweetlivy]

I've only had one vaginal orgasm when I was like twelve. I used to finger myself and somehow i ended up having a really strong orgasm and I became so exhausted that I needed water. 😂

[Anonymous]

There is a statistic somewhere that says that most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Although not for every woman, but for a majority. Remember, there are more nerve endings in the clitoris than in the penis. And still, it can be hard for a woman to orgasm through many factors: not in the mood, not enough foreplay, not hitting the right 'spots", etc. Also, some women can orgasm quickly, and some women may have the hardest time orgasm at all.

[Anonymous]

Sadly the mechanics are all there and therefore ALL women "CAN", just many women "don't".

[Anonymous]

Clitoral stimulation. Learn it. Live it. Love it.

[Anonymous]

Most girls don't orgasm from penetration alone. At least not often.

However thanks to the magic of hands and fingers, one of you can rub her clit while having sex. A combination most women find better than either one on it's own.

[Anonymous]

They can orgasm from foreplay.

[Asker]

Even without oral involved?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah if you take your time apparently and it also depends on the girl still.