I most probably would. It's something I don't dare telling to my wife, but I regret more and more losing what I would consider my purity. I can't even lie and claim I am virgin because we have children, and while I'm probably overthinking it, I think that people would respect me more if they thought I was pure.
What? Respect you more? No, not when you're an adult.
I was pretty lucky/smart I guess. I chose well. I almost had to convince my man into it. He was older and felt somewhat guilty about the age difference/where we were at in lives, which is understandable. Which only made me want him more, and I told him that. I respected him a lot and he treated me very well.
Which was different than the first boyfriend, who was shallow and constantly trying to convince me to sleep with him for his sake, but I knew he was never going to be the one. It was a stupid (yet temporarily exciting) junior high thing, but we broke up because of our disagreement on sex. No big deal. I lost all interest in dating high school boys, they were idiots. I waited, and as soon as I graduated and got out in the real world, I met men, and they were sooo much more appealing and interesting. Although all commitmentphobes.
I would never want to go back to that time, at the beginning of it all. But if I did my twenties over again, I'd be so much wiser and more knowledgeable now. I'd know exactly what was going on, almost right away, and that would've saved me a lot of unnecessary heartache and tears.
This seems to be something that nobody seems to agree with me. The only person I told this more or less said I should have thought about it years ago. I think it's good that you don't have regrets about your twenties.
Oh I never said I don't have regrets about my twenties. I just don't regret the choices I made about virginity. It's really not something you can do anything about now. I can't say just get over it, because I am pretty terrible with getting over some things, myself. I find regret to be a huge problem. So I feel for you on that one. But, wise people say, work on the things you can change, not the things you can't.
No, I would have to go back to just facesitting and as fun as that is, after knowing what sex is like, I don't think I would just want to reset all that experience and forget that feeling. It's on the table like a glass of water is while eating.
I wouldn't want to do that because my experience help me become the person that I am today because of the knowledge that I didn't have at that time in that moment four times later I found it and I've carried it with me and enhanced it ever since so basically I would not want to change anything because I would not have wanted to miss that opportunity to learn what I've learned
If I get it back, it won't last long and it's gone again.
Human instincts are closely related to sexuality. Therefore I consider ''virginity'' as just a temporary initial physical condition.
I can still volunteer to be a 'good' person.
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NO I have had way too much fun without it!
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I don't think that virginity is perceived as a positive attribute by the time you are in your early twenties.
I’d do all of it over.
I don’t think your assumption is right. I think until you project strength and confidence people don’t respect and they may not
I wouldn't, i don't evaluate anyone, man or woman, differently based on being virgin or not
Not a chance
Nope I have never seen my virginity as something holy or important, it was always just a fact
Did you say that you feel “impure” because you are married with children? Marrying is not a loss of virtue.
Maybe.
If you are married then then no one would expect or respect you being a virgin…
Nope. I gave it to someone I love more than anything in this world, to take it back would be to spit on the foundation of our lives together
Good thing I still have mine
No. If anything I'd give it away earlier. Ideally before meeting my cockblocking ex.
He was tryin to keep it for himself
@Bklynbadboy12 yeah probably. But it's like having a nice car. At least take it for a spin on Sundays.
Yes I definitely agree so he was afraid to have sex with you
Nah. All i'd change is who I lost it to. It wasn't a bad experience by any means, but looking back I could have done better.
No, but I would like to be able to erase my man-whore years.
I don't understand, dude. Why are you worried about virginity? You're married! You have NOTHING to be ashamed of!
I don't know, it's just something that I always consider dirty so to say.
Aww.
It's not dirty at all, in my opinion.
Our virginity is easy to get and lose. But it's hard to imagine that any woman will wanna go through that pain again, so I'm guessing the most of them, if not all, will say "no".
To answer your question: no. That time of my life is something I'm doing my best to forget bc it involves a lot of heartbreaking and I don't wanna go through that ever again, for whatever reason. Being virgin again will be a constant reminder of that time.
Yep.
Nope.
Doesn't matter b/c it can't happen.
Why> You're married. You shouldn't be a virgin.
Nope
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