I recently started seeing a guy and he sort of soon mentioned topic of sex, I got put off it cause I don't know him well or is he looking just for sex etc. Turned out he was just curious how compatible we were so it was fine BUT if you are looking for something serious I wouldn't bring it up early on cause we dont know each other well and it would only make sense to discuss sex if we are at the point to have it. Im not a prude and sex is important to me. Its fine to ask how sexually open someone is but i wouldn't dirty talk with a guy I don't know well. But it all really depends on what are you looking for, if you are not looking for anything serious then its fine and women that way will be fine w it too.
Personally i may say sexually joke, but it stay on that, it doesn't go further, its just a bit of tease.0 1 0 0Thanks. So sounds like you are in the under 10% camp. It’s ok to flirt or hint at sexuality but spend most of the time talking about other things. And yes I meant sexual topics to be fun and flirty, wasn’t referring to a full on sexting session.
i mean it really depends on the person, i find it too personal to say to a guy i just met what i enjoy sexually
Oh yeah that makes sense. When we just meet someone they are a stranger and it’s better to get to know them slowly.
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I’d be fine with 25% as long as it isn’t when I’m highly irritated or busy.
0 1 0 0That’s reasonable as long as you let the person know you are busy. It’s respectful to give someone space if they are busy
Surely I wouldn’t just leave them guessing, it’s rude to not inform someone that you’re busy. I know how it feels to be on the opposite end of that stick.
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Depends on how comfortable you are with someone. If I'm comfortable with her she can be as open as she wants.
1 1 0 0Thanks. I also would encourage someone to be as open as possible. More asking about focusing on sex vs other topics. Also meant this question to be in the flirting category.
And there is just something knowing a womans sexual thoughts.
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1 1Depends on how comfortable we r together ig
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Be as dirty as you can be0 0 0 0I disagree.
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I said it in the details. If all she can do is ask sexual questions and can’t talk about other aspects of life or ask me about them then it gets boring fast. It’s ok to discuss sexuality but should be a part of I larger conversation with other topics.
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