If you have an s. o. especially a husband or wife, do you still watch porn?

[Anonymous]

Why do you need it, if you have an s. o?

[turkishgirll1]

Sex& couple’s therapists are saying that in a marriage a man shouldn’t satisfy himself by watching porn and let them explain.
Porn is the easiest way to satisfy, you don’t have to satisfy your partner, you see whatever you want, you do it just according to yourself without any effort. Meanwhile you have a partner and if you wanna have a satisfying sexual life with her you have to think about her as well and this may cause some stress. If a man gets used to the easy way, it may impair their relationship.

[Asker]

What if the guy is caught masturbating to trans porn?

[turkishgirll1]

You think it means something like he may not girls or what

[Asker]

Yeah

[turkishgirll1]

If so I see a divorce

[Asker]

Right though?

[turkishgirll1]

Sex is an important part of marriage and if a partner is not into the other than what’s the point of trying

[Asker]

I know, right?

[turkishgirll1]

I guess so yeah. But sometimes divorce is not easy also respect that

[Asker]

My cousin got divorced when he found out she was cheating. They have two kids, a house and two very good jobs

[turkishgirll1]

That’s good actually makes more sense to divorce If the cheating was the case

[Asker]

Yeah!

[NamerOfStars]

Because s. o. s aren't sex dispensers. Sometimes you're horny and they're unavailable or uninterested, and you need to tend to your needs yourself.

[Asker]

So whats the point of having an s. o. then?

[NamerOfStars]

If that's the only thing you're doing with them, you don't have an s. o., you have a fuck-buddy. Nothing wrong with that, but it's not the same thing.

[Asker]

friends with benefits is for pathetic losers point of having an s. o. is that they're your best friend.. that you happen to fuck

[Anonymous]

Yes. Because I like it and my marriage is largely sexless.

[Asker]

sounds like an unhappy relationship

[Opinion Owner]

Not true. Just missing the intimacy that I crave. I'm pursuing a lover.

[Asker]

You're cheating?

[Opinion Owner]

As soon as the pandemic is over and both of us are vaccinated.

[Asker]

what?

[KilledByBees]

It is a good way to see a variety of things, other people and body types and other poaitions or kinks to try out.

[CubaPirate]

I have and I do

[Asker]

Why!

[CubaPirate]

Because I can and she doesn't mind

[Asker]

That's not a viable reason and SHE LETS YOU?

[CubaPirate]

Sure we watch it together sometimes because we're both adults and it can be fun

[Asker]

yikes

[Anonymous]

Yes of course.
It’s natural visual fantasy.

As a male I have visual fantasy just like my female partner has mental fantasy. You can’t just stop fantasy.
The most common female fantasy is being force fucked by a stranger. This has nothing to do with their partner.