I don't do relationships and I'm asexual. Sense I'm asexual / voluntarily celibate any girl I'd be with would cheat on me because they'd eventually want sex to have a baby. It's already happened to me once which is one of the many reasons why I gave up on relationships
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Desire-for-Greatness
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I have a question for you. Do you think your condition is normal? If not don't you think you can treat it? Asexual is not a thing my friend. All these sexualities they made up are just that. Made up. As a doctor I can tell you that you could be having a hormonal imbalance that can cause such symptoms. If you don't believe me go perform a hormonal blood test.
user1516
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Are you really questioning this poor guys sexuality? @desire-for-greatness. If he said he’s asexual then he’s asexual. Hormonal or non hormonal he said what he said so please respect that.
Desire-for-Greatness
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Can you please not speak on his behalf? If he doesn't want to get his hormones checked that's his choice. As a doctor it is my job to make sure people are healthy. Do you think you're helping him by not letting him know the cause of his issue?
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Heartache0405
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Even if asexuality isn't a thing, and I have no idea if it is or not 😅 I know I'm voluntarily celibate. Which isn't a sexuality. And even if there were a cure for not wanting to have sex I'd prefer not to go through it. I don't like sex and my life is actually better without it.
Heartache0405
+1 y
How is not having sex unhealthy? Just curious...
Desire-for-Greatness
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Well, I haven't had sex either so you're not alone. My reason is religious. Just keep in mind that not having the urge can mean there's an underlying issue. If you have any medical questions don't hesitate to ask :) Good luck bro
Heartache0405
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Thanks man, I appreciate your concern. It's nice to know that if I feel like its a problem I can get it figured out.
Desire-for-Greatness
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No no, I didn't say you should have sex. I said not feeling the desire to do so could mean there's a physiological imbalance. It's 100% a matter of choice my friend.
Desire-for-Greatness
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There's a solution to everything. Never despair, you're not alone.
Heartache0405
+1 y
Gotcha 👍🏼
AviatorTomMaster
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Only if it was my fantasy celebrity actress. My SO knows who that is and is aware of my fantasy. Of course, that's never gonna happen. I chose Maybe but the answer is really No.
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DargilMaster
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Nope. I'd know.
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t-8900Yoda
+1 y
I have always believed in the sanctity of marriage. But even if I didn't I know betrayal too well. Cheating being one of many betrayals I have shcferi by trash people. I would know, God would know, those watching over me would know. No thank you. That won't be on my head?
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DragonpurpleXper 7
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If your on the end where you have no idea, you would have no idea he or she is doing that to you. Cheaters often think what they do not know, will not hurt them.
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Luminair3Xper 5
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No, that's a very disgusting thing to do. Even if they never find out I'd still never do that.
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GwenhwyfarMaster
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Definitely not
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humpbackjackXper 6
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No only if it’s a fair is fair situation or open relationship
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ConcordioXper 2
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I'm a simp for Kantian ethics, so it's an easy no
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DontaaaaXper 5
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Nope, I already know that the guilt would just eat at me nonstop and I would eventually rat myself out to her on how I cheated on her.
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Louis-1Xper 2
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I think you can date more than one person at the same time until it gets serious, but when the ring is around your finger you remain loyal, if you must fuck around, end it formally, get a divorce
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exitsevenMaster
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Nope- that would never happen.
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CandaceSims201Xper 4
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NO I will not.
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MassagemanEditor
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No, I wouldn't
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Andres77Master
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Not worth it.
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Cheechee4meXper 4
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I bet the cheaters are all red pills who have issues with women. Clowns lol.
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patrick677Xper 3
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NO, too loyal person. Will not be able to look her in eyes anymore. Proud of myself.
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MandyandScottXper 1
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When I’m in a relationship I am committed to her only. Yeah, I may look I’m not blind, but prefer nothing over my lady
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douride2Master
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It would never happen. Even if they never found out it would make me go insane.
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20 59I don't do relationships and I'm asexual. Sense I'm asexual / voluntarily celibate any girl I'd be with would cheat on me because they'd eventually want sex to have a baby. It's already happened to me once which is one of the many reasons why I gave up on relationships
I have a question for you. Do you think your condition is normal? If not don't you think you can treat it? Asexual is not a thing my friend. All these sexualities they made up are just that. Made up. As a doctor I can tell you that you could be having a hormonal imbalance that can cause such symptoms. If you don't believe me go perform a hormonal blood test.
Are you really questioning this poor guys sexuality? @desire-for-greatness. If he said he’s asexual then he’s asexual. Hormonal or non hormonal he said what he said so please respect that.
Can you please not speak on his behalf? If he doesn't want to get his hormones checked that's his choice. As a doctor it is my job to make sure people are healthy. Do you think you're helping him by not letting him know the cause of his issue?
Even if asexuality isn't a thing, and I have no idea if it is or not 😅 I know I'm voluntarily celibate. Which isn't a sexuality. And even if there were a cure for not wanting to have sex I'd prefer not to go through it. I don't like sex and my life is actually better without it.
How is not having sex unhealthy? Just curious...
Well, I haven't had sex either so you're not alone. My reason is religious. Just keep in mind that not having the urge can mean there's an underlying issue. If you have any medical questions don't hesitate to ask :) Good luck bro
Thanks man, I appreciate your concern. It's nice to know that if I feel like its a problem I can get it figured out.
No no, I didn't say you should have sex. I said not feeling the desire to do so could mean there's a physiological imbalance. It's 100% a matter of choice my friend.
There's a solution to everything. Never despair, you're not alone.
Gotcha 👍🏼
Only if it was my fantasy celebrity actress. My SO knows who that is and is aware of my fantasy. Of course, that's never gonna happen. I chose Maybe but the answer is really No.
Nope. I'd know.
I have always believed in the sanctity of marriage. But even if I didn't I know betrayal too well. Cheating being one of many betrayals I have shcferi by trash people. I would know, God would know, those watching over me would know. No thank you. That won't be on my head?
If your on the end where you have no idea, you would have no idea he or she is doing that to you. Cheaters often think what they do not know, will not hurt them.
No, that's a very disgusting thing to do. Even if they never find out I'd still never do that.
Definitely not
No only if it’s a fair is fair situation or open relationship
I'm a simp for Kantian ethics, so it's an easy no
Nope, I already know that the guilt would just eat at me nonstop and I would eventually rat myself out to her on how I cheated on her.
I think you can date more than one person at the same time until it gets serious, but when the ring is around your finger you remain loyal, if you must fuck around, end it formally, get a divorce
Nope- that would never happen.
NO I will not.
No, I wouldn't
Not worth it.
I bet the cheaters are all red pills who have issues with women. Clowns lol.
NO, too loyal person. Will not be able to look her in eyes anymore. Proud of myself.
When I’m in a relationship I am committed to her only. Yeah, I may look I’m not blind, but prefer nothing over my lady
It would never happen. Even if they never found out it would make me go insane.
Hell, no!
It’s very dishonest and very deceitful!