If you sleep with someone and the first time isn’t good would you tell them?

If you have sex with someone for the first time and they aren’t good, would you tell them that they’re not good and how to improve or will you stay quiet and pretend to enjoy it until the end?

My friend and I were talking about this the other day. During one night stands it’s easier just to pretend it’s great rather than talking them through what you like, especially if they’re a complete stranger.
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This isn’t advice for me, I’ve already sorted out my problems :D I’m just curious about you would do in your own experience.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't care who it us let's pretend you and I meet we go home together and we start making love fucking what ever you are going to be very very very good you are going to be the hottest sexiest lover ever no matter what i never kiss and tell and i dis like anyone thst does but if for this let's say I did do that. I would tell everyone the truth I woukd say I want to fuck her so bad again she was so hot so naughty and woukd keep cumming and cumming.. So the reason whtpy I said all the above is because it's the truth because no matter what u know or how you do it doesn't matter because I'm going to make it all about you in going to make u become the best just by in slow motion reading ur eyes the way you breath the way u move using all that to make u feel and want to feel it crave it want it so bad that you become in and you get lost in thst moment we become one and the deeper I can make you feel and become that the hotter it is and the bigger the orgasm we both have are,,,, if someone says you not good they are talking about themselves so tell are you ready to do it again mmm 😊

  • Dont tell directlly. rather show eacher other how do you like it in the moment. you can discuss it later on after improving your sex like a mild joke.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Subtly tell them what you like and don’t like. And tell them what you want them to do. I wouldn’t tell em they’re straight up bad at it just cause I don’t like hurting people’s feelings. Plus that’s so embarrassing lmao.

  • I wouldn't assume he wasn't good at it but maybe we haven't found our technique together just yet. I'd still go a few times to really find out if it is related to our chemistry or really lack of talent

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  • Yeap.

  • If I wasn't asked for a critique, I would accept what I received and do some coaching next time. If I was asked for one, I'd say: There's room for improvement and well figure it out next time.

  • I never did it but always heard that the first time is never good, so my expectations are low and if I do it with an experienced partner I'd let them lead me through it. If I'm not doing well I'd want to hear how to do better.

  • One night stands are stupid to me
    If you are in a relationship, it's very important to communicate, because if you stay quiet, then it;s your fault that it's not good.

  • Naw you gotta train em without em knowing. I've been known to turn girls into whores

  • I do one night stands and hook up..
    I don't sacrifice my sex fantasy just bkoz she is not good in sex. I change the partner.

  • Well help the person practice and give tips hints and teach. take control and direct them talk experiment and try all things

  • Well, if you marry someone then you can have the freedom of talking about it and getting better and better each time. Because you know the other person isn't going anywhere, so you don't have to worry about scaring them off.

  • I would just gently help them improve as subtlety as I could. I'm not going to hurt someone's self-esteem just because they need practice in bed.

  • Yes ma'am, tell him and put him in his place. Its important to discuss wants and needs. Having a satisfactory sex life is important in any relationship.

  • prob.

  • Never had a one night stand but I had bad sex before and i told them then I told them how they could improve and if they didn't I would just have bad sex with them

  • I don't care too much girls try too hard when I do end up going freaky 🤐 I don't feel that much as I just love to please that turns me on more but if she realised or asked I would say.

  • That's no problem at all ! Even more, it's good, because there is way to improve by exploring each other

  • Nope will try to see what come out for the second time.

  • if it were someone I liked, I would talk with them