If your significant other/spouse wanted to invite the neighbors over to watch, how would you react?
DizzyDesiiEditor
Notice i said WATCH not join in lol. But yea how would you react? Be excited, mad, jealous, etc? Or is this something y'all have done before (if not more)?
I was serious when I said that someday when I marry, I want to invite over some seemingly trustworthy neighbors to watch us have sex. I dont care if they sit and stare or masturbate themselves or eachother to us, but all eyes gotta be on us. Them mfs can't steal the spotlight UNTIL its their turn. When they go up to start fcking, my dude and I would only touch eachother. Now I admit, this is nervewrecking because although I like live porn, I don’t want this to lead to insecurity, jealous, an affair or swinging or some shit, because I’m not cool with that. Maybe I should do this before marrying 🤣 Or maybe i should save it for if the sex ever gets dull in the marriage. Yeaaaa my occasionally voyeuristic/exhibitionist tendencies are tingling lmao. #FeelFreeToList
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When i say neighbors, it doesn't actually have to be the house next door lmao. It can be anyone in the area that you trust enough and know enough. But just not friends or family. Some of everyone in my neighborhood used to get buckwild back in the day, but we dont still talk about it lol. We dont even speak daily lol. My first boyfriend and i got caught by most. Shit my moms boyfriend caught us fckin up some new construction homes but no one ever believed him 🤣 I had an innocent look
1 y
Ok i shouldve specificed if you had some random new hot neighbors (a male and female coupling) that you got to know and began to trust. This wasn't supposed to be an all the time thing. Maybe 2-3 times a year. If you have performance anxiety then just dont do it. But i wanted it to be like watching a live porn/art exhibit. You’re watching and learning knew ways to touch and turn on your partner. You still want to be eachothers focus but also pay attention to what you’re being taught. Not cheatin
I would not be able to do it in front of an audience
DizzyDesii
1 y
If she's seducing you right, you won't even remember anyone else is in the room
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exitseven
1 y
That is why I couldn't be a porn star.
DizzyDesii
1 y
I wouldn't be a pornstar because they fck more than their significant other. I couldnt be a pornstar because they are being filmed. I dont like either of those reasons. I could however be a porn director 🤣
bowenwMaster
1 y
I'd have to give it some serious thought, but not my current neighbors.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Lol.
Anpu23Master
1 y
Nah, Im good. I've done the voyeur thing and not a big deal to me.
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Phoenix98Master
1 y
That’d be a big no for me.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
I understand
Phoenix98
1 y
Yeah it’s not for everyone.
elizamichale1Guru
1 y
Interesting n kinky but i would prefer them to join
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Lol nahhh can't be doing all that 🤣
elizamichale1
1 y
Hehe why not... it would be so much fun
Chad345Xper 4
1 y
No thanks. Not my thing.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Understandable
Pink2000Master
1 y
Honestly it depends on who the neighbor is and what they look like.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Of course. I ain't just gome invite some bumpkins 😂
Pink2000
1 y
I’m open to being watched. I think I might like that. I don't know though
DizzyDesii
1 y
Its fine long as the people dont distract you. Of the gus a good kisser, that can make you forget others are watchin real quick 😝 fck lemme stop reminiscing
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dinojames22
1 y
@pink2000 I felt the same way but found out rather weirdly that being watched beings a weird nervous aroused feeling you can't beat
DizzyDesii
1 y
@dinojames22 only if you focus on the audience more than your partner. My guy told me to focus on him at all times and kissed him when certain things went down
dinojames22
1 y
Honestly I could focus on my partner but would never be able to ignore the eyes on us
DizzyDesii
1 y
@dinojames22 then its not for you and thats okay
TheSpaceGnomeGuru
1 y
Nope.
I'd only be ok with it if it were just bisexual women that I found attractive, and even then, I would need a bi girlfriend/wife for her to be ok with it. But I'd probably just say no to avoid her saying "but we had 2 other girls here, why not 2 other guys?"
I think pretty much every straight male has the "seeing a group of hot naked women" fantasy, but I do NOT want another dude in there, I can't even begin to describe how cringey that is to me.
Gonna pass on this one.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
I guess i get it. But dudes act like we WANT another female in there. I was nice enough to say a couple because it would seem suspicious if i just asked for a guy. He’d prob think im cheating. I just wanted us to get our fuck on and let another couple enjoy this “ive porn” and then we could do the same. I wanted the overall act to be the focus, not anyone checking out some other man/woman specifically. If he wanted tonsee tits, he could just look at mine. This wasn't supposed to be some kind of hallpass to jerk off to another girl. But if guys are thinking this is weird or hoping to cheat then nah i could just go back to fcking in public where i know we’re the spotlight and no one else is naked 🤷♀️
DizzyDesii
1 y
*live porn
TheSpaceGnome
1 y
It's not a matter of hoping to cheat, it's that they have to be women, and also attractive, or its going to kill my boner and ruin my experience with my girlfriend/wife. Its a matter of the scenery being disruptive or not, I have zero interest in cheating or using them as horny fuel. The "group of naked women" fantasy is seeing enough women to pick one you like, then you "drag" her off to a private place, its a single guy thing, not a "hot tub orgy" thing. On the viewer end, I don't want dudes in my porn for the same reason, boner dead, no thanks.
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TheSpaceGnome
1 y
Basically, if I were maried, and my wife had pics of naked dudes on her bedroom wall, There is no way in hell I'd stay hard long enough to have sex, that shit is gross af to me and is an instant turn off.
DizzyDesii
1 y
I somewhat understand. I guess its just different for girls like me. I can watch a dude deep pound a pussy but still be focused on his dick the entire time. Im just not stuntin the girl even if they try to have her right in our face
TheSpaceGnome
1 y
For me a naked guy being there is the equivalent of trying to stay hard while a zombie is throwing up in the corner of the room. Whereas a naked girl being there is just pretty scenery, so it's at least not ruining the experience unless my wife gets uncomfortable, then even that is not tolerated.
TheSpaceGnome
1 y
Thats why I said they all had to be bi, because I expect a straight woman to find other women as cringy as I find other men.
MakeushiverYoda
1 y
Don't know how realistic photo is but they're attractive enough to get turned on either with them watching or joining. I'm used to being watched while masturbating and it has amped the pleasure of that and sex in public or usually semu-public areas is hot because of the chance of someone watching.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Yea the watching is hot but im not about the joining
Titanic1912Guru
1 y
No. No one is allowed in our bedroom, not even our future kids when we have sex after kids. It’s going to be just me and my wife.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
They’re not allowed in our bedroom either. The living room though...
annabanannaYoda
1 y
I know my neighbors and that would be the weirdest thing ever. I would say heck no if I actually thought he was serious. I’d prob think he’s joking and laugh.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Lol okay
Date_a_SnobExplorer
1 y
two weekends ago me and my boyfriend had our first foursome with another couple
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DizzyDesii
1 y
But i assume y'all actually had sex with them. This isn't what im tryna do
Date_a_Snob
1 y
We did
loveslongnailsMaster
1 y
Happens all the time... what's the big deal?
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Lmao
Sparkie460Guru
1 y
I know my one neighbor has seen my wife and I having sex years ago
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Oh nice
Sparkie460
1 y
Yeah I just found out about it about a month ago. She was 18 at the time. She said it was such a turn on for her watching us having sex
Jennz6Guru
1 y
I’m not shy, I guess it would be fun
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Hell yea
Jennz6
1 y
@dizzydesii love the picture on your post
kellythemanGuru
1 y
I did have some neighbors who where swingers and one night they could heard me and my girl have loud wild crazy sex. Unexpectedly they invited me and my girlfriend at the time over for dinner and said they just like to know there neighbors. When everybody got a loose with a few drinks the woman asked if it okay they watch have sex and told us they could hear us. We was a little comfortable at first but they said if they watch us we can watch them and she was very sexy and my girlfriend though the guy was hot so we talked about it and agreed to it.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Yes see nah y'all already finding the other couple all attractive lol. Im starting to see the red flags in this task 🤣
kellytheman
1 y
Well it only happen once and after that we would always compete who had the best sex with orgasm noises through the walls.
BJP21Explorer
1 y
Not sure if I want that kind of audience unless they are engaged in the same thing.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Engaged in the same thing?
NostalgiaSenpiExplorer
1 y
Nope. I hope we would have already expressed our personal likes and dislikes in the bedroom and that's not something I'm interested in.
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DizzyDesii
1 y
😂😂
AimeeKyleYoda
1 y
With several adult beverages, sure….
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DizzyDesii
1 y
Lmao not you needing liquid courage
GodsvengeanceXper 5
1 y
I'd love that, if I found the neighbors attractive.
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15 56I would say no frickin way.
Im shocked for once
I would not be able to do it in front of an audience
If she's seducing you right, you won't even remember anyone else is in the room
That is why I couldn't be a porn star.
I wouldn't be a pornstar because they fck more than their significant other. I couldnt be a pornstar because they are being filmed. I dont like either of those reasons. I could however be a porn director 🤣
I'd have to give it some serious thought, but not my current neighbors.
Lol.
Nah, Im good. I've done the voyeur thing and not a big deal to me.
That’d be a big no for me.
I understand
Yeah it’s not for everyone.
Interesting n kinky but i would prefer them to join
Lol nahhh can't be doing all that 🤣
Hehe why not... it would be so much fun
No thanks. Not my thing.
Understandable
Honestly it depends on who the neighbor is and what they look like.
Of course. I ain't just gome invite some bumpkins 😂
I’m open to being watched. I think I might like that. I don't know though
Its fine long as the people dont distract you. Of the gus a good kisser, that can make you forget others are watchin real quick 😝 fck lemme stop reminiscing
@pink2000 I felt the same way but found out rather weirdly that being watched beings a weird nervous aroused feeling you can't beat
@dinojames22 only if you focus on the audience more than your partner. My guy told me to focus on him at all times and kissed him when certain things went down
Honestly I could focus on my partner but would never be able to ignore the eyes on us
@dinojames22 then its not for you and thats okay
Nope.
I'd only be ok with it if it were just bisexual women that I found attractive, and even then, I would need a bi girlfriend/wife for her to be ok with it. But I'd probably just say no to avoid her saying "but we had 2 other girls here, why not 2 other guys?"
I think pretty much every straight male has the "seeing a group of hot naked women" fantasy, but I do NOT want another dude in there, I can't even begin to describe how cringey that is to me.
Gonna pass on this one.
I guess i get it. But dudes act like we WANT another female in there. I was nice enough to say a couple because it would seem suspicious if i just asked for a guy. He’d prob think im cheating. I just wanted us to get our fuck on and let another couple enjoy this “ive porn” and then we could do the same. I wanted the overall act to be the focus, not anyone checking out some other man/woman specifically. If he wanted tonsee tits, he could just look at mine. This wasn't supposed to be some kind of hallpass to jerk off to another girl. But if guys are thinking this is weird or hoping to cheat then nah i could just go back to fcking in public where i know we’re the spotlight and no one else is naked 🤷♀️
*live porn
It's not a matter of hoping to cheat, it's that they have to be women, and also attractive, or its going to kill my boner and ruin my experience with my girlfriend/wife. Its a matter of the scenery being disruptive or not, I have zero interest in cheating or using them as horny fuel. The "group of naked women" fantasy is seeing enough women to pick one you like, then you "drag" her off to a private place, its a single guy thing, not a "hot tub orgy" thing. On the viewer end, I don't want dudes in my porn for the same reason, boner dead, no thanks.
Basically, if I were maried, and my wife had pics of naked dudes on her bedroom wall, There is no way in hell I'd stay hard long enough to have sex, that shit is gross af to me and is an instant turn off.
I somewhat understand. I guess its just different for girls like me. I can watch a dude deep pound a pussy but still be focused on his dick the entire time. Im just not stuntin the girl even if they try to have her right in our face
For me a naked guy being there is the equivalent of trying to stay hard while a zombie is throwing up in the corner of the room. Whereas a naked girl being there is just pretty scenery, so it's at least not ruining the experience unless my wife gets uncomfortable, then even that is not tolerated.
Thats why I said they all had to be bi, because I expect a straight woman to find other women as cringy as I find other men.
Don't know how realistic photo is but they're attractive enough to get turned on either with them watching or joining. I'm used to being watched while masturbating and it has amped the pleasure of that and sex in public or usually semu-public areas is hot because of the chance of someone watching.
Yea the watching is hot but im not about the joining
No. No one is allowed in our bedroom, not even our future kids when we have sex after kids. It’s going to be just me and my wife.
They’re not allowed in our bedroom either. The living room though...
I know my neighbors and that would be the weirdest thing ever. I would say heck no if I actually thought he was serious. I’d prob think he’s joking and laugh.
Lol okay
two weekends ago me and my boyfriend had our first foursome with another couple
But i assume y'all actually had sex with them. This isn't what im tryna do
We did
Happens all the time... what's the big deal?
Lmao
I know my one neighbor has seen my wife and I having sex years ago
Oh nice
Yeah I just found out about it about a month ago. She was 18 at the time. She said it was such a turn on for her watching us having sex
I’m not shy, I guess it would be fun
Hell yea
@dizzydesii love the picture on your post
I did have some neighbors who where swingers and one night they could heard me and my girl have loud wild crazy sex. Unexpectedly they invited me and my girlfriend at the time over for dinner and said they just like to know there neighbors. When everybody got a loose with a few drinks the woman asked if it okay they watch have sex and told us they could hear us. We was a little comfortable at first but they said if they watch us we can watch them and she was very sexy and my girlfriend though the guy was hot so we talked about it and agreed to it.
Yes see nah y'all already finding the other couple all attractive lol. Im starting to see the red flags in this task 🤣
Well it only happen once and after that we would always compete who had the best sex with orgasm noises through the walls.
Not sure if I want that kind of audience unless they are engaged in the same thing.
Engaged in the same thing?
Nope. I hope we would have already expressed our personal likes and dislikes in the bedroom and that's not something I'm interested in.
😂😂
With several adult beverages, sure….
Lmao not you needing liquid courage
I'd love that, if I found the neighbors attractive.