If your wife’s friend saw you naked while you were changing should you tell her?

My wife’s friend was staying with us on vacation for a week. I was changing in my bedroom and she walked in to grab a curling iron thinking I was outside. I was completely naked changing and she saw me. She kind of giggled and covered her eyes said she was sorry still went to the bathroom a got what she needed and walked out. We both said whoops sorry and didn’t say anything else. Total accident but should I mention it?

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1 mo
My main reason is I didn’t want to make it awkward for anyone. I understand it was an accident. I want to tell my wife, yes her friend may have said something too I don’t know yet, if my wife said something I would most definitely tell the truth was worried to make things awkward between us all.
1 mo
Update, this morning I told my wife hey you’re not going to believe what happen, she tells me yeah I know says her friends name and says she told me she saw you naked and I’m sorry, she explained what and how it happened. I said ok anything else yeah “she agrees she’s never seen such a little penis on a grown man” oh great I say and the wife says yup it’s out of the bag now. It’s super awkward for me now and I have to see her in a few minutes when she wakes up ugh! Cool
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You know your wife better than any of us. Would she want to know? Would she accuse you of holding back if you didn't tell? Are you afraid that her friend is going to tell? My opinion? It is not a big deal at all. It's a naked body. We've all got them. We've all seen one. It was harmless.

  • I'd share it. I really like sharing these things with my wife. What's the big deal? I don't see what's the big deal. It's funny and I like to share everything I can with my wife.

    • I don't why anyone else could think oppositely. I think I'm just operating very differently here. Why not just tell the wife? I mean what's the big deal? You didn't even do anything wrong. It's an accident. I don't even see this as a remotely complex ethical dilemma. Just tell her! It's better for you, better for her, builds trust... Common sense, no? What if someone else tells her about it and you never do? Builds distrust and she might think something weird is going on when nothing weird was going on. You tried to change and someone else caught you. Not a big deal!

    • * don't understand

    • Yeah this is what I was leaning towards I want to be honest. Nothing happened between us.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just tell your wife "well that was awkward" and explain. Honesty solidifies trust.

    • Thanks for mho

  • What's the betting your wife's friend has already told her. 😂

    • You think so I thought about this then I also thought she would be to embarrassed to tell her she just walked in our room

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • Usually they will tell your wife and you know if she did if you can hear your wife and her friend laughing in the other room afterwards

  • They'll probably already talk about it with each other, and I don't see it as something to worry about.

  • Yes my wifes friend has seen me naked and we both told her.

    no big deal for us, we are comfortable with nudity

  • She already knows because she is the one who saw me naked.
    She already knows because she is the one who saw me naked.
    • I mean tell my wife

  • wasn't expecting a such question.
    And yes i would tell her. Why wouldn't i?

  • No. She probably already told your wife.

  • yes/no it all down to trust in the end

  • No, not a big deal.

  • Probably. I feel like the friend would probably say something and you wouldn’t want to get caught keeping a secret like that, that would make it seem worse than what it really is, a funny mistake.

  • Did her friend say anything

    • Not that I’m aware of I don’t think she did yet anyway

    • Well it’s not like anyone did anything wrong

    • I agree I’m just torn between making it awkward or letting it go, I don’t want to seem as if I’m not telling and lying about it but at the same time I feel like it’s not that big a deal why even mention it. I think I am because if it was the other way around I would want to know but then it would create this uneasy feeling at the same time.

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  • Why say anything?

    • I don’t know 🤷 just feel weird leaving it like that. I feel like I should say something but then I don’t want to make it awkward for anyone