Im on the pill but my boyfriend still doesn't want to cum inside me, he never gets to finish and I dont like leaving him unsatisfied, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

So we have recently started having sex, both of us have had sex with 2 people not including eachother. and everytime we have sex he doesn't get to finish because he doesn't want to cum inside me and says it doesn't feel good to pull out and cum. surprisingly no one has made the move for oral sex which bothers me but i am never aggressive enough to take the initiative. i asked him how he's finished in the past and he said the girl would always suck him off. and i might be immature for feeling like this but i dont want our experiences to be exactly how theyve been every other time in the past but i still want him to be satisfied. i know using a condom is an option but hat takes away pleasure and i really care about how he feels (we are both clean just so you know) is it unreasonable that i dont want to be exactly like his exes?

[ThinkingHead]

I'm always gonna RSVP YES to that party! I really don't get how it's possible not to finish, unless he can release in your mouth. That's nice sometimes, but part of giving pleasure is releasing where you want it, and inside is always best. The only reason I can think of is that he never has. I remember a time when I was planning to pull out, and she whispered in my ear that she wanted to be filled with my stuff... that was pretty much a verbal command! If the situation is right, that's going to be my preference.

So to answer your question, take his load the way he wants for now, and migrate towards your preference. Perhaps for your birthday, or some other special occasion, you can request that as his "gift" to you. Once he tries it, I'll bet he loves it and doesn't want anything else.

[vet31bSoldier]

1) Get a "his pleasure" condom... still feels good.
2) so take the damned initiative!
3) get over that "dont want it to be like past sex" bullshit. There are only so many things to do during sex. If you don't want to do shit you both did with others, then don't have sex.

[AustinMan]

Tie him down and ride him to completion. I suspect that once he's cum inside you, he'll be hooked.

[lkwisener]

Why he isn't trying to get off is a way more important question.

[aamy811]

Put on a condom and he can then cum inside

[summiter]

It is quite strange for a guy to pass up an orgasm after some intercourse. Does he have an std he does not want to give you? Can you finish him with your hand? Your thoughts?

[stevie123]

You can blow him or jerk him off.
Don't forget the other girl fu**ked him too, so blowing him won't be different either.
Don't let what someone else might have done in the past, control sex with you and your guy.
You want to satisfy him, do whatever it takes.

[serp777]

he can just pull out at the last second and cum on your belly

[Will_the_lightning]

If he's so concerned about it (paranoid if you ask me), he can always use lamb condoms. They feel great, as close as you can get to not wearing one.

[WhySoComplicated]

The pill don't always work! Let him have his security.

[bubbakong2006]

Well if he won’t bring a guy in that will and let him know you need cum inside you mayby he will join and fill you

[SteamBuns]

Sorry but swallow when he is about to cum swallow it

[Tomsta]

It maybe he is a little like me and doesn't want to finish inside for fear of getting you preg (even though the pill is approx. 99% effective), so if both of you have sex with 2 people, is it a open realationship?

[KrakenAttackin]

He doesn't trust that you are actually on the pill. Sooooo many women lie about this.

[Abdulwahh]

I dont know but if i was him i will cum in you everyday

[Anonymous]

While pulling out and cumn isn't as good as cumn inside it's better than not not cumn at all. I pull out at the last second. Like a pull out and once I'm out relax and cum straight away. When I'm about to cum I hold it until I'm out can probably hold it for about 20 -30 seconds max.