Just from start to finish? Maybe once a week, and 2 or 3 during her special lady time. I get the wake-up beej usually, which is always a good note to start your day on. Wish we had time to get after it every day, but we have opposite schedules for the time being. But after 7 years, I'm not complaining, haha. I'd say all in all we stay pretty active relative to a lot of couples that have been together a long time.
In my ex relationship, I did not receive one single handjob or blowjob, despite it being almost 6 months. Of course, she was somehow comfortable with me doing some stuff to her.
So yeah, my current tallies are:
Relationships - 1
Sex - 0
BJ - 0
HJ - 0
Fingering - 1/2 (kinda)
Oral - 1/4 (boobs only)
i like how exact you are. one fourth !
Oh god damn, please don't ruin English... It's a quarter, not one fourth. Thank you.
Whenever he asks if we're alone, especially if for some reason we can't sleep together so we have to work with what we've got and I'll give him a blowjob instead.
so how often would you say it winds up being? approximately
At least 2-3 times a week for sure. If we hang out, the mood strikes, but both parents are home so we can't act on it I'll just give him head in the car which happens once every week or 2.
As the main event? Maybe like once or twice a week and I usually surprise him. It usually leads to sex later on anyways so I don't know if that counts.
Hmmm.. Atkeast 4 ish times a week. I like to sneak it in when it's almost kinda risky so he has to stoically take it;)
Like when?
Like in the car..at the movies.. .
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Rarely to be honest. We've been together for about 2 years and I go down on him 3-4 times a week but it's always before sex.
That's rarely?
I thought you were asking how often we give a bj as the main event. We only do it as foreplay !
would you consider turning at least one of those times a week into the main event?
In my current relationship I get them a lot more than I give them. But in pasts I've given them a lot more.
once a week. been together for a year so far. hard to see eachother though, in the summer maybe more
I've never had one *sigh*
Sometimes when she's on her period I get one. Very very rarely other than that. That includes as part of foreplay and to completion. It is domestic abuse really. Especially considering I go down on her to completion every time before sex.
You gotta be kidding with the domestic abuse.
Dunno. You think not then? Do you even feel slightly sorry for me?
It's unfortunate that you crave something that she isn't willing to give you, but it's not her fault at all. She's not obligated to give you oral sex. Do you know how unpleasant it is to have a penis in your mouth? Calling it abuse is ridiculous and an insult to those who actually suffer from domestic abuse. If it bothers you that much, break up with her.
Judging from my last relationship, twice a week I think, at least.
that's not too bad!
Same here with giving 3-4 times a week sometimes more, to completion. I also receive just as often.
I'm glad I'm not the only one so lucky!
Depends on the guy. If he asks me I'll do it usually.
3 to 4 times a week
ALL the time; to me its a part of fore play or just because
You should marry her. No wait - marriage might end that. On second thought - date her forever! Lucky guy.
I got one the first time my girlfriend and I had sex... she kept telling me it was going to be rubbish, but she blew my mind.
I don't expect it, I receive it if she's feeling like giving it.
As much as he ask or/and if I want.
Let say between 7 and 21 a week.
Do you have a sister that you can set me up wish?
*set me up with?
Now that I think about it...with and wish both work. :-D
when the boy asks/hints for it
Whenever you're both into it, regimenting this stuff just makes it boring
I have been married for almost 30 years and I can count on one hand that I have had a bj
3-4 times a week...more often than not
very glad to hear that =)
I get them never.
3 to 4 times a week
5-10 times a week, but usually just as foreplay.
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