Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh my god, I'm appalled at the comments on this threat.
    First of all, your value is more important than what some strangers are saying on this website, literally these people and their opinions are virtually useless.

    What's "too high" is a question that hold no bearing, all that matters is how you feel about yourself.
    If you're concerned that you're out of control or need help please seek it. But, if you're happy with yourself and are practicing safe sex than don't worry about it I say.

    Seriously, these people that say it's too high are arguing something illogical and ridiculous. As long as you're healthy and happy it isn't anyone's business to value your "worth" on how many partners you had. You're more important than that

  • I'm not one to "slut-shame," so I am approaching this from an analytical point of view.

    In my opinion, to be of what I consider a "good age" to begin having sexual partners, which is 18 FOR ME, that's quite a few. That would be 6 partners each year.

    Then again, I also acknowledge that my sexuality doesn't represent everyone's personal drive," so, who am I to say?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've heard of much less and much more. For me it's too high for a girl I'd go for, because I don't feel like she's had 12 intimate partners, I prefer girls who only have sex with guys they have a relationship with, I look for numbers less than 5

  • Some may think it's high, but it's your body and your business alone.

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  • If you're comfortable with it, then it isn't.

    It's higher than mine, but that's the only thing I can compare it with.

  • Nah. It's no one's business but yours. I know girls who are younger with a higher count. It's just a number. Nothing to be concerned about.

  • Yes, it is. This isn't a hypothetical question, is it?

  • It's for some people. It's not high for some others. It all depends on the person you end up with

  • It isn't low.

  • Yeah, that's pretty high in my opinion.

  • Is a body count of 12 high for a 20 year old?
    • she needs that tag

  • Yep! Are your parents divorced? Did you start at a young age?

  • It's a good body count


    Can you teach me some moves in the bedroom?

    My number is 0

  • Well this is 2021 we can’t say what it’s high or low.

  • Not really

  • For myself it definitely would have been high. I'm not judging anyone else though.

  • It's probably considered high, but it could also depend on circumstances and if there's any reason for it. Or maybe you just like sex.

  • It's your life, I personally don't like it if women had so much sex. This counts for men as well. Men and women shouldn't have sex with everyone, only with people they really like/love.

    I don't agree with everything in this video, however, it might be interesting to watch.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/5oT7xPDpaUc
  • No you are good

  • I don't think so. It is normal.

  • Why do you care what others think? Just live your sex life the way it makes YOU happy.
    And don't call it "body count". Not only is it cringy as fuck, it also implies your sex partners were your victims.

  • It depends. Were they your lovers or did you kill them?

  • Not really, it's about right. But it depends, on when you started..
    But it's just sex..

  • Heck, I think 1 is a noticeable amount...

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