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  • I answered a similar question yesterday. The (hopefully) short version is:

    I don't care about the status of her virginity, per se, but I *do* care about her attitudes about sex in general. If she's 20, it's probably not an issue, but if she's in her 30s, she's either super shy, asexual, terrified of sex, or grossed out by sex, and all of those are potential problems for a relationship. Sometimes they are solvable problems and sometimes they aren't, but a lot of guys are going to find the situation too much of a hassle, and (with some justification) a bad risk (because there's a decent chance that it's not going to work out well).

    Personally, I'm pretty patient in general, but I'm also usually pretty good at figuring out if things are making positive progress or not, and if there's no real progress, I'm likely to give up and move on rather than invest a ton of time and effort into a lost cause. So, whether it would be a problem for me would depend a lot on the woman and her situation. There are definitely situations where I'd be willing to work with her and help her through it, and there are definitely situations where I'd move on down the road.

  • The reason for it probably matters more in determining whether or not it's a dealbreaker. Like if it's because your religious then it would probably be a deal breaker for guys who aren't religious or if it's because you have a low sex drive then it would probably be a deal breaker for guys who have normal or higher sex drives. Point is the reason for it would impact the decision more than just the fact you are a virgin.

    Also virginity in women generally isn't looked at nearly as negatively as virginity in men is.

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  • Not to most, I'd bet, but I understand why some women don't want to risk it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Learn personal hygiene. Cause virgins don't know that a lot.
    Don't wait for marriage, people don't show their true self before marriage.
    Always allow yourself to learn more.
    Young people and old people are obsessed by virgins. Most are just not up for the bother unless they love you. Cause virgins so often are shit in bed. And they refuse to learn or do anything. They got preconceived notions in their head and are not ready to learn new things yet.

  • Not at all. I respect a women's choice to have sex when she is ready.

  • What SEX of a Virgin MAN or WOMAN is Not as enjoyable to have a sexual experience with? How is a sexual experience with either at all anyways? O never had sex with a VIRGIN and and Never will LOL

  • Being a virgin adult woman is a plus for many men.

  • at your age, perhaps not, though it is getting into the "but why?" territory. It's just a thing where if you're still a virgin at that age people will wonder if it's because you just plain aren't interested in sex. That's not going to fly with most men.

  • Absolutely not at all, It wouldn`t bother me in the slightest if i was with a girl who was still a virgin

  • Not at all, as long as she's willing to lose it lol ;) Seriously though, @MrOracle said it all in his first sentence... what matters is her attitude towards it.

  • Not necessarily but advancing sexual intimacy is central to a strong relationship and I will want to know what your views of sexuality are in some detail. A relationship without advancing sexual intimacy is sterile.

  • Not at all

  • Not really no, doesn't bother me :)

  • no that is more of a guy problem

  • As long as its not because your religious no

  • No, but the reason for it could effect how long the relationship lasts.

  • Not really, all depends what the man is looking for...

  • Depends how old are you
    If u are older then 30 and u still virgin u got some problems :c

  • Depending on the age, yes it would be to some

  • Nope.

  • I'd hope not , my goodness, if it is, You need to kick his Ass away !

  • No. But usually it is for guys being a virgin. People think somthing is wrong with them by 21 and still a virgin.

  • Not to me; ideal for me!

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