I don't know if he's intentionally trying to knock you up, but you seem to know better - or at least you sound like you should. He definitely should know better. If you aren't ready to get pregnant, then don't have sex with him (or anyone else) anymore and only have sex when you find that person and are ready. Yes, he should be more responsible. But you aren't being responsible by knowing what's right and wrong and still doing the wrong thing. You still have time to get your head together and start understanding responsibility. Talk to your parents. They should help you. Don't think you won't get pregnant, because 9 times out of 10, you will. And the cost of a child is practically in the same ballpark as buying a house. If you ain't ready to buy a house, you certainly ain't ready to have children yet.
1 0 0 1Are you using some other form of birth control? This is probably more than a friends with benefits since he is taking you out, but he's an idiot for not using a condom.
1 0 0 0My parents think I'm a virgin so if I ever asked for birth control they'd murder me and he knows this so I agree with you he is a major idiot. I also agree with you that it's possibly more than friend with benefits but I don't know why he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend, or brought up our status then:/
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(6)Hello friend now lets talk about benefits. O your pregnant well goodbye/ lets get an abortion together.
1 0 0 0There are some nasty, controlling guys who use pregnancy as a way to gain control over younger girls. I think this is what's going on here.
0 0 0 0Hmm. what do you mean why control me?
Some guys knock girls up on purpose. Because she's pregnant, she may face rejection from her family, loss of her job, the need for more income to pay for the baby's expenses, etc. He then alternately offers and withholds money and support, making the girl/woman dependent and anxious. That's how they use the fact that the girl is pregnant to control her.
Are you not on the pill? If he thinks your on the pill it's unlikely he's worried that you're going to get knocked up.
You should be more worried about STI's if your unsure if you're the only one he's seeing or has seen or not.
As for you're other questions, that's something you would have to ask and/or make clear to him. That's you want to make it 'official'.0 0 0 0He's an idiot for not using a condom. One of those guys thinking "It will not happen to me".
Even if *you* know you're clean, he can't know:
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...-us-tee_n_90977.html
You're only 17: are you prepared to raise a child? Can you afford it? Read this: money.cnn.com/interactive/pf/cost-of-children/0 1 0 0I am afraid so. You should find a boy your own age. It's just my opinion but sometimes guys can be very shallow.
1 0 0 0So you're having underage sex with a 23 year old. I don't know why would want to get you prego, that should scare him away
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