Is it a turnoff for a girl to be a virgin in college?

I'm 18 and going to uni in a few days, I'm super excited about meeting new people and friends and the course of course. But I've had the same group of friends all my life who all know I'm a virgin, but of course there's no judgement there they just know me. I feel like when I meet my flatmates and we're playing never have I ever and stuff it's going to be really awkward that I'm probably the most inexperienced person there (the other girls I've met that I'll be living with are both in relationships and not virgins). So on the whole friend spectrum I feel like it will make me feel sort of out for it? I've even contemplated whether I should exaggerate about how far I've gone, which is pathetic lol.
I've never had a boyfriend, I've had a few situations where I could've had sex (not including like randomers on a night out) but it's never been right. I recently decided that I finally feel ready, but I've just stopped seeing a guy I liked because our personalities clashed and we're both introverted so he never would've made a move if we were together.
I'm not desperate or in a rush, I just feel like I'm going into the adult world and guys might not be into the whole 'virgin' shit. Like most of my friends are having one night stands, while I'm here taking it slow and hoping for the right person. I don't want to scare someone off.
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  • i was a virgin until i was 20. a cousin of mine, didn't have a girlfriend, until he was in college. he's married. i regretted how i lost mine