That you swallow when giving him head is a personal thing. He definitely should not have said you swallow to his friends in front of you. Of course is was embarrassing. People tend to be embarrassed when private issue are brought up in a group. It's not surprising that he doesn't get why you were embarrassed, as if he got it, he wouldn't have said it in the first place. He either lacks the insight necessary to understand privacy issues, or he is very immature.
Sounds like a jerk. I’d say that’s pretty inappropriate and rude to say even if it’s just he and his friends and you’re not there. I also see it as disrespectful towards you and that he doesn’t truly care but, I don’t want to say that’s for sure as it could have just been a stupid moment he did. We all say dumb things in the moment sometimes however, still wrong in my opinion.
That shows a complete lack of respect and maturity, especially saying that right in front of you. Might continue disrespecting you into the future since he has no clue where he went wrong 🤦 bad catch.
@jasskaur Yeah, he fucked up. But then again he is a kid. People in that age group make more stupid decisions than people in the 35-40 group would. However, women also screw up. Would you like to be judged just as harshly as you are judging him?
@joeblow123 If I disrespected my boyfriend in front of others like that without remorse then yes please. No, an 18+ year old adult can't be treated as a "kid". Sure a 35+ year old is likely to be more mature, but this excuse logic is a major slippery slope. I don't see why you had to include "women also screw up" because gender is completely irrelevant here. Bit of your incel rage leaking out 😏
@jasskaur "but this excuse logic is a major slippery slope." Continue to hound us forever for the same thing and/or a slight misunderstanding and watch MGTOW grow. There are involuntary celibates or incels then there are voluntary celibates or volcels. We took a good look at the women around us and went volcel.
You're boyfriend is indeed a jackass to blame you in that manner. You may think to teach him a lesson and the next times he ask you to give him head, you may decline.
@jasmin0701 Yes, he did something stupid. Then again so do women. . Perhaps the best way to tell females they have engaged in inappropriate behavior is no cunnilingus for a month or two.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He didn't get it because he doesn't care about you he cares more about his friends than you if a guy loves you he will protect you not do you dirty like that ,, my question is how long are you GOUNG to let him degrade you use u and if u give him head again all that's telling him it's ok to tell anyone everyone about you
That's personal, he should be ashamed. He is NOT a gentleman.
Yeah, that's like high schooler behavior. He was being a jackass for saying something like that. Maybe you should try to date someone who acts like an adult.
That's something quite personal to expose in front of others. I wouldn't feel comfortable and would definetly let my partner know.
That was disrespectful of him. If he doesn't apologize it is probably time for him to find a new girlfriend.
That’s disrespectful, that’s immature teenage boy behavior. Especially doing it in front of your face is embarrassing.
talk to him and tell him what you two do together is private and you don’t appreciate him telling your business to all his friends. If he doesn’t understand that than he has some growing up to do
Oh no
I think if he has your private photos he definitely show his friends
Sharing intimate details with his buddies, in public, and in front of you shows that he doesn't respect or value you.
That was a major asshole move.
How much more detail does he share when you're not around?
Looking good in front of his buddies seems to be more important than intimate details about you.
Did any of his buddies start looking at your mouth after his comments?
That’s a jerk move. If my man called me out like that in front of others... He wouldn’t get one for a very long time.
Young people do stupid things. It doesn't mean the young people are stupid it just means that lack the experience to make the right decisions. I've made stupid decisions when I was your age. I did things that I would never do today. It is through these mistakes that we learn. It is from these experiences that we learn.
He was bragging or they plan a gangbang in future with you. Your bfs idea I suppose
There's nothing bad about it, but I understand why you were embarrassed. That's a private matter, and it shouldn't have been blabbing about it to his friends.
"he" shouldn't
No, he is just proud of you and showing you off in front of his friends. It's a badge of honor! Swallow away!
i think that is rude when you are there
rude what did his friends say?
It's extremely inappropriate
You should tell him that if he wants any more, that he will show you some respect!
that was unacceptable of him
yes , it is obviously verbal abuse , get all the evidences and report him to police
@fred_durst This is not a criminal matter, genius. No need for cops.
Definitely not appropriate, especially you being there. Sounds like he was just trying to flex
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