Is it common for a girl my age to be attracted to older guys?

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  • As a guy that's dated half his age a few times, it's not very common, but not unheard of... Maybe 10 percent or so will date 20 years older. More than 50 percent will date ten years older if the guy is in shape and has shit going for him.

  • Agree with @Nik1hil totally normal.

    One question though, what question's answer is yes?☺️

  • the answer is yes

  • More or less, I personally am attracted to both guys my age and older. I signed up on a sugar daddy/baby dating site in my freshman year but only went on 3 dates, both of which went well. I decided not to continue because I got a boyfriend around my age, but otherwise i would totally date an older guy if I like him.

    • How much older were your sugar daddy date guys, and how much of an age gap was/is acceptable to you?

    • In their 40s

    • So 40s while you were 18-19…what made you go to a sugar daddy site?

  • Yes, it's fine to like Older Guys or being attracted to them, and your age
    My last girlfriend was age 24 and I was age 53, She loved me but we
    Couldn't get together the cause of the distance and she is very sweet
    She lives in California USA and I live in Pennsylvania USA

  • It's whatever you're attracted to! Back in the `90's, Jerry Lewis was 62 when he married a girl in her 30's and had at least one kid with her.

  • Happens often.

  • Yeppp

  • Well your screen name says it all

  • I believe so as there are a lot of immature guys your age.

  • It’s probably not the age itself your attracted to but rather the things that come with it. Which that in itself isn’t weird.

  • That's very common. Almost stereotypically common.

  • oh yes it is.

  • Ahem... cough, cough... checks dating app matches... uh... (Looking around for any women over 30 nearby) ... no comment.

  • Perfectly normal.

    Be advised however that older women will hate you for dating us as it makes them feel even more invisible.

    • No, it‘s because your interest in someon younger isn’t healthy, it‘s purely sexual. How can you connect and fall in love with someone who’s immature and not yet emotionally and mentally developped? Not to mention you probably have nothing in common. Whilst a younger woman attracted to older man is feeling that attrction because of your personhood as a man (maturity, intelligence, experince, achievments, confidence), not because she sees you as a sex object. Before you ask, I‘m young too.

    • Just because you are not mature enough to have a substantial meaningful relationship with me doesn't mean other women near your age are not.

    • I don't know a single woman who's dated an older man who didn't feel like they were being played on their youth. Girls before 25 still haven't fully formed their personalities and life goals, they still don't know what they want out of life. You get with them for the sex and because of how pliant they are, but once they begin growing and developing their personalities the relationship breaks down because they're not the same, and they realize they were taken advantage of.

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  • Totally normal..
    Now start approaching them.. Because older guys.. Are dying out there to get a chance with a girl who is younger than 20 but older than 18...
    19 is a golden age...

    Older men finding out you are 19 will alone have their Erection half way...
    You can basically have any older men you want in bed... Very easily... if you are willing to keep things a secret...

  • It's normal, sense of maturity and power with older guys.

    I had a date more recently with a 22 year old. Recent college grad types are good since we are more on the same roadmap in life.

  • Yes, I’ve had several young women partners.

  • about as common as rain

  • I have always been somehow good looking, but now I also have the personality :D

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