Is it common for men to get erection when dancing?

He apologized and said “sorry, you’re just too sexy to be able to hold it, I can’t handle.”

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One more question, why would random stranger guys go to him and just give him five, claps (so on) and some encouraging remarks, when looking at us?
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  • A boner isn't something a guy can consciously turn on and off. It's usually turned on by certain stimulus. But young guys sometimes get them for no reason.

    I've been embarrassed by a tent pole in my pants when slow dancing with beautiful women. Their reactions vary. Sometimes they see it as a compliment, some get aroused, and sometimes they are like "WTF"? Women generally have a sense of humor about such things, though. They know what's what.

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  • When a woman is attractive and a guy is being touched by her, sometimes mental images or thoughts stir up physical reactions.


    It sucks but the less a guy is used to being touched by women, the more likely he’ll have hard to control erections.

    • I really think he must be used of being touched by women. He was quite handsome himself.

    • Possibly but if that’s actually the case he knows exactly what he’s doing and is trying to sleep with you. Only two ways I can see that.

    • I think he knew it wouldn’t happen.

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  • I have experienced this a few times, kinda like some power over them

    • If a man gets erected because of you, it makes you feel powerful?

    • @insteadfew to a certain extent yes,

    • How so?

  • Yes, it sounds like he got excited. That's normal for some people.

    • Would it be creepy for you?

    • No, my boyfriend used to get random erections when he was excited. Lol

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  • Yes I used to work with a guy who would get hard just standing next to me not touching haha so it seems natural that it would happen dancing.

    • How would you know he got erection?

    • @insteadfew one day he he was like I can’t stand next to you I was like 😒 why? and he was like because you smell so good 😳 then I noticed lol

    • I happened a lot though I didn’t mind but I think it was awkward for him

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  • Yeah I get hard when dancing turns to grinding. Hell, I even got hard when I jokingly grinded with a buddy at a pool party. I don’t have too much control over my erections

  • Sometimes common when dancing at a nude function!

  • That happens until a guy learns to control it. Alcohol or provocative girl (dancing partner) don't really help it.

  • i have felt this

  • It has happened to me especially during slow dances or when grinding. When I was in high school it happened all the time. I guess teen guys are walking/talking boners.

  • Isn’t that the point of dancing? Get them hard ! Lol

  • very common for me!

    • Do you usually have to apologize for this tho?

    • Never lol

    • @tinydiva1991 I am unfailingly polite. So, I would apologize if it seemed called for. …but I have never felt that need. In fact, I think it’s usually taken as a compliment.

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  • That's normal to a sexually healthy man.. Many time it's happens specially a beautiful girl's front of us..

    • Even when they have a girlfriend/wife?

    • Yes it's possible, for more detail discussion follow me and talk in private message

    • Oh fuck that

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  • I used to get hard when my ex-wife would just sit beside me.

    That's how you know she's the one.

    • If she’s the one why she’s ex wife though?

    • After 15 years and raising a child together she didn't love me enough anymore. We still fucked and dated after out major breakup, but I couldn't keep her forever. She's a 9/10 and I was fighting an up hill battle.

    • I tried, but I didn't know enough back then.

  • I mean of ur going on him makes sense. Otherwise no unless he can see down ur dress

    • Grinding*

  • Guys can get hard anywhere anytime. It's natural so I don't have a problem with it.

  • He was either just creeping on you, or it was a dare from his friends.

  • It's possible to get an erection even randomly. But if he said you were sexy, that will be very much the case.

  • I am sure that most high school boys starched their shorts more than once at a school dance...

    • He is a handsome successful 27 year old though.

    • His penis and his libido are still that of a high school boy. I'ts mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter

  • Yesvit happens mostly when vlosevdliw dancing.

  • Not unusual. women have orgasmed dancing with me. Goes both ways.

  • It can happen, those things have a mind of their own sometimes.
    It's not like you would be using it while you were dancing, but there it is.

  • The thing with male biology is that we can get erections for no specific reason, especially when we're teenagers. You could be doing homework, and "woops! There's a hard-on going on". Or when doing any mundane task. So yeah, it can happen while dancing.

  • It depends, largely, on how he feels about who he's dancing with. Do your nipples or clit ever get hard while dancing with someone you really like a lot? It's, basically, the same thing.

    • I never paid attention. For me dancing is just a ncie, sensual way to get rid of the extra energy.

    • I don't suppose we have the ability to not notice when it gets hard and we don't have the ability to stop it, either. It just happens. If anything, I guess it's our way of saying that we really like you! Guys, at least from my experience, get SO LITTLE girl attention that, when we finally DO, it's a big "BIG" deal!! Maybe, if it happened a lot more often, we wouldn't get hard-ons, or at least not as often.

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