He apologized and said “sorry, you’re just too sexy to be able to hold it, I can’t handle.”
A boner isn't something a guy can consciously turn on and off. It's usually turned on by certain stimulus. But young guys sometimes get them for no reason.
I've been embarrassed by a tent pole in my pants when slow dancing with beautiful women. Their reactions vary. Sometimes they see it as a compliment, some get aroused, and sometimes they are like "WTF"? Women generally have a sense of humor about such things, though. They know what's what.
When a woman is attractive and a guy is being touched by her, sometimes mental images or thoughts stir up physical reactions.
It sucks but the less a guy is used to being touched by women, the more likely he’ll have hard to control erections.
I really think he must be used of being touched by women. He was quite handsome himself.
Possibly but if that’s actually the case he knows exactly what he’s doing and is trying to sleep with you. Only two ways I can see that.
I think he knew it wouldn’t happen.
I have experienced this a few times, kinda like some power over them
If a man gets erected because of you, it makes you feel powerful?
@insteadfew to a certain extent yes,
How so?
Yes, it sounds like he got excited. That's normal for some people.
Would it be creepy for you?
No, my boyfriend used to get random erections when he was excited. Lol
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes I used to work with a guy who would get hard just standing next to me not touching haha so it seems natural that it would happen dancing.
How would you know he got erection?
@insteadfew one day he he was like I can’t stand next to you I was like 😒 why? and he was like because you smell so good 😳 then I noticed lol
I happened a lot though I didn’t mind but I think it was awkward for him
Yeah I get hard when dancing turns to grinding. Hell, I even got hard when I jokingly grinded with a buddy at a pool party. I don’t have too much control over my erections
Sometimes common when dancing at a nude function!
That happens until a guy learns to control it. Alcohol or provocative girl (dancing partner) don't really help it.
i have felt this
It has happened to me especially during slow dances or when grinding. When I was in high school it happened all the time. I guess teen guys are walking/talking boners.
Isn’t that the point of dancing? Get them hard ! Lol
very common for me!
Do you usually have to apologize for this tho?
Never lol
@tinydiva1991 I am unfailingly polite. So, I would apologize if it seemed called for. …but I have never felt that need. In fact, I think it’s usually taken as a compliment.
That's normal to a sexually healthy man.. Many time it's happens specially a beautiful girl's front of us..
Even when they have a girlfriend/wife?
Yes it's possible, for more detail discussion follow me and talk in private message
Oh fuck that
I used to get hard when my ex-wife would just sit beside me.
That's how you know she's the one.
If she’s the one why she’s ex wife though?
After 15 years and raising a child together she didn't love me enough anymore. We still fucked and dated after out major breakup, but I couldn't keep her forever. She's a 9/10 and I was fighting an up hill battle.
I tried, but I didn't know enough back then.
I mean of ur going on him makes sense. Otherwise no unless he can see down ur dress
Grinding*
Guys can get hard anywhere anytime. It's natural so I don't have a problem with it.
He was either just creeping on you, or it was a dare from his friends.
It's possible to get an erection even randomly. But if he said you were sexy, that will be very much the case.
Yesvit happens mostly when vlosevdliw dancing.
I am sure that most high school boys starched their shorts more than once at a school dance...
He is a handsome successful 27 year old though.
His penis and his libido are still that of a high school boy. I'ts mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter
Not unusual. women have orgasmed dancing with me. Goes both ways.
It can happen, those things have a mind of their own sometimes.
It's not like you would be using it while you were dancing, but there it is.
The thing with male biology is that we can get erections for no specific reason, especially when we're teenagers. You could be doing homework, and "woops! There's a hard-on going on". Or when doing any mundane task. So yeah, it can happen while dancing.
It depends, largely, on how he feels about who he's dancing with. Do your nipples or clit ever get hard while dancing with someone you really like a lot? It's, basically, the same thing.
I never paid attention. For me dancing is just a ncie, sensual way to get rid of the extra energy.
I don't suppose we have the ability to not notice when it gets hard and we don't have the ability to stop it, either. It just happens. If anything, I guess it's our way of saying that we really like you! Guys, at least from my experience, get SO LITTLE girl attention that, when we finally DO, it's a big "BIG" deal!! Maybe, if it happened a lot more often, we wouldn't get hard-ons, or at least not as often.
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Superb Opinion