Is it normal for guys not to cum every time they have sex?

Maybe it's because I'm not that experienced. Don't get me wrong though, sex with my boyfriend is great. But sometimes he will stop in the middle of it and say he is tired or some other excuse. I really hope it's not because of me. I would also think that guys would tell you if the sex was bad or if I was the reason he couldn't cum.

I don't know... It's making me insecure. However, I dont always cum during sex, but it takes more time for me and that's not really why I have sex to begin with. Maybe he has the same reason, but I just thought it was easier for guys to cum.
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  • Sounds mental. He’s cheating.

  • Yes... its normal

  • Yeah, It's quite normal... I think it depends on how frequently you are having sex

  • Nope. Kinda odd

  • never had a problem cumming

  • I wouldn't say it was all that common but it happens.

  • Usually guys have the opposite problem, particularly at his age. It's not normal at all.

  • Nope it's not. Unless he got some problem or doesn't enjoy it that much.

  • I always cum unless I’m completely exhausted or she is getting sore from it

  • I think it is odd he stops in the middle unless he didn't know how to say before it started he was too tired to do it in the first place. It is a sign of something but only he knows what it is. Most men would push through unless they were running a 102 temperature and so sick he needs to go to the hospital. He could be truly tired and if that is the case tell him to tell you he is too tired to start and respect his wishes if he says that.

  • Unless he is a straight up A hole guys don’t really tell the girl the sex is bad or that it is them to answer your question maybe he is experiencing some health issues and would rather tell you he is tired then tell you about the issues