Is it normal to feel jealous after your friend tells you she got raped?

[Anonymous]

[EaterPeter]

No sweety. Not healthy. I will not say normal or not. Rap fantasies and real rape have to be much different. You might like rough sex. Not rape. Fantasies are controlled by us not rape. You may think your friend is more desirable in bed than you bcoz of she is raped and not you. You may want to support the friend stick with her and I am hoping your mind will change. Please learn from her bed experience you don't have to have your own bed experience to learn for such things. You may think I am smarter than any one else. You are and you will be if you can spare your self from pain your friend is going through with.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for SO!

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for MHO!

[ChrisMaster69]

Not usually no, it’s usually compassion.

however the human mind is a bizarre thing, it could be picking up on that she now gets sympathy, compassion and you are jealous of that and the attention she receives.

it could be that she has something happen that is different and it could have been anything.

there is also that dark part of a mind that is where your fantasy sits and thinks about the thought of being raped, it is a fairly common fantasy.

[weysally]

a lot of women has this fantasy about rape so yes i could be classed as normal by some but not with other,

[Andreaslag]

Yes, if you're into being raped, like me. Follow me and let's talk about it x

[harvest]

Not really... Do you have a rape fantasy?

[MrNameless]

It's not normal at all. It's a traumatic incident. Rape is scary. It's without your consent/completely uncomfortable, you don't have power over that person and you don't know what's going to happen next.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Why the hell would you want to be raped? It is not normal, you should feel upset that this would happen to some one not wish it was you.

[pandyponde]

Thats a poor troll attempt. Try again.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

It's not every day someone openly admits to how much of a complete piece of shit they are...

[Agape93]

Yeap. Last time I saw this shit offline, I kicked the bitch in the gut.

[GenaBaby1995]

Yes I am a weirdo, I want to get raped like on the highway with my car broke down and a trucker stops to help drags me into the woods and rapes me

[ItsTheNephilim]

Ughh... That's hella weird.

[Agape93]

No that’s not normal

[Janet03]

No that’s not normal

[AFellowWeeb]

Yeah, just cuckolding

[Anpu23]

Rape precludes consent. If you want a sexual act it is not rape. You can want rough sex with a complete stranger, but you can not want to be raped. You are projecting your own take on a very scary and dangerous situation. Rape hurts, it can be emotionally crippling, and your feelings are just complicating her feelings. I get that you can't control how you feel, but for love of all things holy don't express them to your friend.

[Kabluie]

No, there is such thing where rape causes PTSD, and that's nothing to be jealous at.

[ryckrohan]

Do you know who raped her?

[littabitodis]

It is selfish. Though, rape fantasies are common, so i can see why. The thing that marks it as either simply fucked up or thats a piece of shit thing to do, is if you let it influence how you support your friend right now

[chriscdi]

i dont think so

[guyanswers321]

Eh. Everytime I see a hot woman get locked up for raping a boy I get jealous... Cuz you know she's hot and I wish I was getting women that hot at such a young age.

[loveslongnails]

I have to ask... do you suffer from a mental disorder?

[AmeerX]

What's to be jealous about it. She deserves your sympathies. She was probably forced and has PTSD

[Wise4myage]

I think its twisted to think like that.

[crmoore]

I mean rape fantasies are actually very common, but I think your appeal in them is more extensive extensive the appeal most people have. So no, it's not normal, but I don't think it's something you should feel ashamed about, if you do happen to feel that way.

[crmoore]

is more extensive than the appeal*

[Meldrum]

Jealous? You do understand that rape isn't a sexual experience, right? It's has everything to do with power, not sex. Don't be jealous over something so brutal done to a friend.