Is it normal to have less sex in an almost 10 year old marital relationship?

I think am going to a state of sexual deprivation in my married life.
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  • Oh. Poor you, Darling

  • I am at 17 years and have had NO sex with her the last 2. She is 5 years younger than me too...😣

  • sometimes

  • It's too obvious to even after couple of year if you have baby and more responsibilities

  • Yeah absolutely possible

  • Very common. Man wants sex. Woman denies him sex. Man gets accustomed to living without it. Woman uses lack of sex to justify cheating. The cheating is actually her finding another man to take the provider role. She solidifies the new relationship, then purposefully gets caught cheating. Divorce happens, resulting in the husband being taken to the cleaners in court. Woman lives happily ever after with ex's money and a new man.

    You wouldn't believe how many times this pattern happens. It's almost as if there's no real sanctity in marriage at all

  • It does slow down but not completely

  • I'm not interested either have a nice day 🤠

  • I don't know about normal, but it's certainly common. But it is usually the man complaining about it, not the woman.

    • Yes agree, but sometimes I do feel that am missing the intimacy part. I feel unwanted and ubdesired sometimes.

    • I'm sorry to hear that. He should take better care of you.

  • How often did you have sex earlier and now how often do you have sex with him?

    • Earlier maybe around 10 times a month and from past many months twice or thrice a month

    • Only ten times a month? Isn't that too less anyway? Hmmm

    • Maybe but that's how it was anyways.

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  • Some marriages no others yes. I’m married and haven’t had sex in years. It depends.

  • If you want to stay with him just have an affair for your sexual needs because it won't ever improve with him. And don't ever tell him.

    • I don't know about the affair part, but I do agree that it won't ever improve.

    • An affair is a little far in my opinion. You’ll be purposefully hurting him when you should just have a real sit down discussion on the topic.