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Sexual Health Sex is over after my boyfriend cums. I can sometimes can cum before him sometimes not.
11 mo
Is it normal when my boyfriend cums then he stops before I do?
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Sex is over after my boyfriend cums. I can sometimes can cum before him sometimes not.
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5 27Most girls cum together with partner but some comes early and some later
He should always make sure you always cum first. Mandatory number one rule!!!
That's why my girlfriend has so many other fuck buddies, lol. Just because I finished doesn't mean she is finished!
Some men, especially if they're new to sex, have a hard time reading women's signals and are, simply put, just not good at sex in general. It's a skillset like any other that needs to be developed with time and practice.
In any case, this is something that you need to talk to him about.
He looks young and should be able to do better than that about holding it off. But otherwise yeah once we nut there usually is a little downtime. Not so much when I was 18 though.
Do you take any responsibility for your orgasm, or do you leave that completely up to him?
If that’s the case make sure you are primed and ready.. a lot of women believe that it’s the man’s job to get you going. That’s not the case, it’s your job to get yourself ready. However, you can ask him to give you oral for a while until you cum and then go at it. But your pleasure is your responsibility. You ensure that you do what you need to to get off. If he is a nice enough guy he will do what you request because it’s fun. But not his job to make you cum, that’s on you.
I don’t think either of you two are…. Normal