Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health As a virgin I prefer to be with an experienced guy because I want him to teach me. My sexual relationship is very important to me when I’m in a commitment.
Is that OK to prefer an experienced guy? Or are they more likely to cheat? :)
Is It OK to prefer an experienced guy?
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7 65That's perfectly okay
Yes that's your preferences. There's no right or wrong there
He would be more likely to cheat, and more likely to have an std as well.
Learning together is my favorite part about sex with my husband
But if you want an experienced partner that totally ok too
Sex is an important part of a relationship.
Wanting experience is fine.
How are you going to express that?
Seeking Ex-player with a conscience?
Dating is a scary world.
Don't you have any friends that you're attracted to?
People that you will actually get to know without being in delicate situations and feel obligated?
Having someone experienced and likings to chest are two completely separate things.
Cheaters will cheat.
Most cheaters are with more experience, but some with low bodycounts would cheat too if they would get the chance.
Best way to minimize that is to take time with a person, learn them and watch out for red flags. Always comes with some risk though.
My girlfriend was 25 and a virgin when we started dating. She liked the fact that i was mature enaugh to wait for her warming up to me and that i can teach her.
As for the guy, if the woman is teachable and submissive in nature then it's only a plus. We guys like "purity" in women, we tend to get pretty "territorial".
It's definitely okay to prefer somebody with more experience but also don't limit your options too much with not so important filters.
Time goes fast and good men don't stay single for long. Take care.
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I doubt anyone on here is as experienced as me.
Ahhahaha, funny
Lmao okay
Us old farts can have fun too.
Nothing wrong with it. Just have to see the pros and cons
He’s more likely to cheat, but he’s also likely to teach and give a better time in bed
Sure it's ok but someone with a high body count is probably no good. A guy could have experience in a long term relationship.
It's OK but remember those guys may not give you that much important to the relationship they may use you like a condom so choose wisely
Tough question, but how about you both discover each other together and do what both makes you happy and pleasured and both will become experts in just months after marriage 😄
You deserve a guy to only love you miss alyssa rapunzel and never cheats...
Believe me such things doesn't need and experience, the experience will come by itself after marriage 😌
It's absolutely ok to prefer an experienced guy, and not every guy is a cheater
Totally fine. Being sex positive doesn’t make someone more or less likely to cheat.
I see nothing wrong with that. Guys want that too.
Well that’s not good for me lol
Oh wait shit u mean guys want to teach?
Yes, that too.
It’s your body. Do what you want. It’s best to find a guy that has already got his wild days behind him and is older.
Even the good guys I knew growing up, all we ever had was fwbs.
Just tell him what you expect from being exclusive.
Truth
He knows what to do. It will satisfy you to the core.
Of course it is baby girl… there isn’t anything wrong with not desiring the both of you to be fumbling around not knowing what to do with each other’s bodies…
And wanting a pleasurable experience, and mitigation of pain, are both valid and wholly reasonable and acceptable reasons in and of them themselves. You are not a slut for any of the aforementioned, nor is he any more likely to cheat than any other guy. That is the sole matter of the relationship y’all have nurtured, the communication of expectations and mutual respect.
You will do well
A guy who cheated in the past is more likely to cheat. If he's expierenced but monogamous he probably won't