Guys, is it okay if your girlfriend is scared to let you see her naked?

I’m 24 and a virgin. I don’t think I’ll ever be in a relationship or intimate with someone, but I’ve always thought what if it happened.

If it happened, I would not be comfortable naked around him, because I know I don’t have a good body for sex. I have broad shoulders, small hips, man hands/feet, stretch marks, skin discoloration in my inner thighs/butt area/vagina, strawberry skin on my breasts/legs, love handles, some loose skin on my stomach, large saggy boobs, etc. I’ve never seen a woman with as many issues as I do or a worse body than mine. I couldn’t imagine showing my body to a guy because I know how it will end.

It’s not difficult to know what a guy is attracted to. If I were in this situation, I think I would stop him if I caught on that he wanted intimacy. I’d explain that I can’t let him see me naked, he will be disgusted, I’m doing him a favor and he can easily find someone more attractive. I’m not embarrassing myself and I’m saving him from looking at me which I think is a win win. 😊
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  • I accept a woman as she is , it is perfectly normal to be shy and or scared about thr first time someone else seeing your nude body

  • Noooooo!!! There’s something really wrong there!

  • I am the male version just said when the time came fuck it if it works fine if not I will not see her again it worked out

  • If you are not ready there ain't nothing wrong with that , stay firm

  • There’s nothing wrong with worrying about that. I think the more you get to know and trust someone you’ll feel more comfortable.

  • Its always awkward the first few times

  • Rather than worrying about a relationship, why not focus on fixing your body then so you feel better about it? Work out! Eat clean! Get your body HOT!

  • Sure.

  • Why is she so scared of being naked?