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Guys, is it okay to play with a guy's butt during sex?

As in, his hole. Sometimes while I'm on top, he lets me play under his balls and I get to his whole, I never put my finger inside though. I know he sometimes he really likes when I play outside it and around it, but I feel like he's weird about liking it. I can tell he really enjoys it sometimes, he is the kind that loves being dominant and all that. I honestly don't mind putting my finger in there, he has done it to me before... But I'm scared because he might not like it, or I feel a bit weird about it myself unless he's completely comfortable with it. Guys, is this okay do girls ever do this to you?
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play with his hole* 😂
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I'm saying because the fact that he loves with I touch around it that he may like me putting it inside. The guys who said they don't like it probably don't like to even be touched near it! My guy loves when I touch around or on it, he even told me how good it feels. I'm just scared about putting it in, because I feel like when I was almost about to one time, he sort tensed up
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  • A lot of guys are stupid about it being "gay".

    Gay men are tapping into a whole area of male sensuality that most straight guys are totally missing out on. (Yeah… pun intended.)

    And most straight guys are really insecure about anything to do with their butts for fear of being perceived as gay. But what they fail to realize is that it's not ass play that makes you gay; it's who you're enjoying it with. Here is an easy-to-use guide for guys for determining if what you're doing is gay or not:

    If you like men, you're gay.
    If you like women, you're straight.

    Yes, it's that simple.

    Sorry

    • I meant to write… Sorry, Asker. Yes it is OK. Or it damn well should be if he's doing it to you. If he gets weird, tell him about the guide. Good luck and have fun!

    • Regarding your update… it couldn't hurt to ask. Remember you can't just go in dry. Even with a finger it would hurt. If that's what you did, it's no wonder he tensed. Whatever lube you have on hand would work. Or finger yourself and get your finger slick that way. That's kinda hot, actually.

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  • Girl he wants it! If he's letting you get that close? He's just begging you to stick your fingers inside. Most guys will literally flip the FUCK out if you go anywhere even remotely close to their butthole. Mostly because they are so homophobic they think they will become gay or something if a female finger touches their asshole, which obviously is retarded. He's letting you get pretty close, you should really go for it.

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  • I would appreciate if you ask first so I can tell you no. But if we were having sex and you just started doing it, I'd try not freak out too bad, but put it this way, I'd put a stop to it pretty quick and it might make me angry. I would still want to go back to sex, but afterwards, we'd have a talk. And no, it's not because I'm "homophobic," or whatever, it's because that doesn't feel good to me. I don't like it. So make sure you check with him before you just start experimenting down there.

  • I've leave any lady that ever tried that shit to me, idc if we've been married for 15 years.

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  • different guys have different preferences.. just observe his reactions or ask him

  • Hell no I am not into butt stuff

  • Depends on the guy because not all guys lije it. I love my ass and asshole played with

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