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Is it okay to say to guy that he has a small dick if he has a small dick?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Only if you're not doing it to hurt him. If you want to help him be better in bed then yeah go ahead. But otherwise don't. I can't imagine the emotion distress men with small dicks go through. I mean knowing that no women with ever want you... Good god. Well I guess some woman will. Crazy how important sex is. Everybody got to get their fix I guess

  • No its not ok. You should never do that to a guy unless he's insulted your body in some way. Then its game on.

    • well he insulted my body. He called me fat so...

    • He had It coming then.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Based on no context here, I'm going to say 'no.'
    He probably already knows. So why do you want to say it?
    I don't think you're thinking about it right.

    If you are harsh and direct, expect it back. And expect to be commodified and tossed aside for the next better girl. That's how this works. Quid pro quo.

  • I'm sure he's probably already noticed. If he's just slightly smaller than normal I go for a small penis position. If he's ridiculously small, say under 4 inches I just politely tell him it's not going to work

    • Umm small penis position?

    • A small penis position is a sex position that allows for deep penetration

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why would you want to do that except to hurt/embarrass him.

  • What's the point? Do you want to hurt him?

  • Nah, no need... very unnecessary, not something that needs pointed out.

  • Don't call it small, call it average.
    Why would you wanna hurt someone.


    You need not lie and call it a big one , rather stay quiet.

  • YES tell him. All small penised boys need to know that they are not a real man.

  • I haven't a clue.

  • I wouldn't say anything , it can hurt him in the long run and make him self conscious. What doesn't work for you may work for someone els. Taking his confidence away to find someone els isn't the route to go, and it will cause issues like performance and un available intimacy. Ask him if he's open to toys, or oral. If he's insistent on not adapting to your needs, you should probly reconsider your situation.

  • Sure in some contexts, I'd be inclined to say, YES.

  • Probably not if you want to keep him as a boyfriend. Honestly is good but that is like telling my wife she is in the middle of girls i dated in looks and sex. I would have been in deep sh*t

  • Why bother? Is it ok if he tells you you’re looser than a hooker on Saturday night with a vagina so big he could drive a truck up in there?

    • 😂 that’s wild.

    • but I'm a virgin

    • You miss the point.

  • No. If you feel the need to say something, just say he is perfect for you.

  • Would you like to be told that your boobs are too big/small or that your vagina has a bad smell? There's your answer.

  • Why would you do that other than to embarrass him. He knows how big his dick is. I know my boobs are small but that doesn't mean I want guys I'm intimate with to point it out to me.

    • Yeah he needs the truth

  • That depends what you mean by okay. It is truthful but impolite, like saying that a fat or ugly woman is fat or ugly.

  • Why would you say anything?

  • Yeah.

  • I think you shouldn't say that to him, because you can only hurt him with that and nothing else. Saying something like that will obliterate his confidence and probably cause intimacy issues. Saying something like that will probably scar him for life. Avoid that topic by saying something like "This is perfect for me".
    Alternatively, if small dick is a problem for you then leave him. Just don't tell him that you broke up with him because he has a small penis.

  • If you want him to ghost you, yes.

  • I think it's somewhat equivalent to telling a girl she has small breasts.

  • I assume he knows. Dosent need it pointing out.

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