Is It Okay To Wake Your Partner Up With A Blowjob?

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Or Should You Ask FIRST? Does It Matter?

broken_heart_at_48 · Accepted Answer

Hell you can wake me up or put me to sleep with a blowjob. I've been woken up to getting a blowjob several times and not one time was I mad. Once I had never even met her before I was thrown off a little but I let her finish only one time did I trip a little and to be honest I don't remember if I stopped her or not but I woke up to a friend's older sister going at it and she was all about it I think I tried for a second to stop her but I was pretty fucked up and don't remember and we never talked or fooled around again but she was always letting me know on the sly that she wanted to get with me but she had a crazy old man plus her being a friend's sister and she was a good bit older like 10 years or more but any guy should appreciate his girl doing the deed it's like Christmas

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Omg! Does she have to ask! If I woke up to her doing that... That has to feel like heaven to wake up like that...

Girls! You want to give a man a present, that's the way to do it! Before he even wakes up, start going.

Now this is of course for the women that want to do it.

But for guys, if it's her birthday, dive in before she wakes up. That has got to be amazing!

This is of course after you are very intimate with each other. But that has got to be one of the best feelings in the world to wake up like that for either genders.

I'm gonna say, yes, as long as your both have been sexually intimate with each other regularly then for either gender this has got to be heaven

90sVibe · Accepted Answer

Well I'd pre-establish boundaries set with your partner before hand on things like this for both of you and where you're confort level are with spontaneous sexual surprises. I personally know some men who would feel violated because of personal things they went through in the past. Most guy I know would probably be more than okay with something like that. I'd just try and get an over all idea of consent for future events you or he may want to explore and surprise each other with. Respecting boundaries is very important in all dynamics of relationships and sexual ones are no exception. But have funand make the best out of every situation you can.

MrsJaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

i once surprised him with that because he had morning wood (it took time till i understood its a normal thing and accepted it) he was happy for whole week hehe and i do it when am in mood maybe twice a month and sometimes its nice to have a morning protein shake and that will make him feel unbeatable unbreakable for many days :P so yes its ok to wake him up with some love

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Depends on your partner.

Some people are okay with this. Others aren't because it feels very close to rape or taking advantage of an unconscious partner.

I'm personally not okay with this. Half because I feel rapey having it done to me or doing it myself, and half because if it were done to me I have a very strong feeling I would freak out and retaliate with blows against someone touching me like that while I'm asleep (only child who's lived alone for a few years now and is very reactive to being woken up).

wingattebaby16 · Answer

I love waking my man up with a blowjob. Usually in the morning before alarm goes off OR if I needed more when we went to bed, so I wake him up in the middle of the night, "having a wet dream"...

rkf_helps_247 · Answer

Is it okay? Oof... Fuck yes. It's the BEST WAY TO WAKE UP ? Can't think of any better way to wake up to

Lycirian · Answer

I say this. I think there is no men in the world that wouldn't like to get waked up by this kind of way.

Fatherhere901 · Answer

I'm actually thinking if you have already attempted this , and your partner says they don't appreciate it. That is your only warning about the situation. Other than that, women have a bigger discretion window when it comes to men about attempting things on them. meaning, you can pretty much do anything you want to the guy, an only after the 10th time he said no thank you, you have to take him seriously

1love2hearts · Answer

Talk about consent prior. Like babe, would you be opposed and consent to a morning blowjob some day, not necessarily tomorrow but when I'm in the mood and just did it do I have your consent? And future consent?

BarryMcKohkner · Answer

Wait what? Why is this a question lol. Yes, do it. No questions, just do it.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Usually give it to him when I wake up ahead of him.

Marcuslrh · Answer

Yeah you should already have stuff in place for that like my ex said I could just wake her up for sex whenever so you would have that conversation before hand so agree or disagree before hand on whether that would bother you or its completely fine and your in to it for future references for each other

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

You should have this conversation with your partner to see if they're okay with it or not. I'm in the club of: never assume.

Especially because dudes get hard ass weiners in the morning because they have to pee, so, precautions.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

As far as I know most guys love to be woke up like this

Mystery1900 · Answer

Definitely - I would love to have my morning erection sucked and played with until I woke up.

Ericalovescats · Answer

Maybe ask him the night before and then say "hey babe" I'd love to give you a dick sucking alarm clock" sound good? I'm pretty sure he'll love it.

triff · Answer

It's lovely to hear so many positives for such an act My only concern is that some were saying isn't it the norm or it's expected There are no rules that say this is expected and you should never do something that you don't want to do Historically Man could have what he wanted either by agreement or demand the consent This was now overuled by law and are now permitted to say no or a case of rape or secual assault But getting back to your question what a lovely way to be awkend

RJJ33666 · Answer

I would love to wake up in the morning with a blowjob. I mean, which man in their right mind would not like that. I would wish to wake up every morning like that. I would the happiest man alive. You don't need to ask me about it, I would be happy to wake up like that. You want the morning wood, don't ask just grab it.

pierre7i · Answer

It'd spoil the beautiful surprise by asking ! Waking to a lovely girl sucking + licking my always-verrry-hard morning wood would make me think I was in sexual paradise !

Porter21 · Answer

I would love to be awaken to a blow job!  I would also love to eat her pussy in return!

SjE78 · Answer

one of my oldest fantasies tbh is being woken up with a BJ, or more accurately having a woman i'd be with giving me a BJ while trying not to wake me... and waking up as I cum... :) :P :P :P

JPrez · Answer

Absolutely. If they want to do it every day, I’d be fine with it. 😂

jaYYiie · Answer

I did it to my ex 🤷‍♀️🤭

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Of the dozens of guys I’ve woken up with BJs over the years, I’ve never once had a guy be anything but thrilled.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Unless it's part of your regular boy girl games and neither of you are punching a time clock, due too you both being independently wealthy and all, and you've done the comprehensive criminal-medical background check for DTSS from deployment in whatever hell hole your partner may, or may not have, been handing Charlie's their own asses for a living, I'd avoid tempting fate and let him or her get their beauty sleep.

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Answer

In theory it's "Not Okay" after all each time a guy has sex with a girl (wife, partner, girlfriend, friends with benefits and One night stands) he has to have her consent otherwise it could legally be considered Rape. However talking practically I've not ever heard of a guy getting pissed off?

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

I would love this.. :)

Dargil · Answer

Wake me up with a sloooow, easy handjob. Then when I am awake and hard,  Rock And Roll!!

Natehunter199 · Answer

Please do, i would love to be woken up by a blowjob. Hell i would love to be woken up period with my cock being played with. I have never had it happen yet but i think that is the best way to wake up and no you dont need to aske me first it you want to suck or play with my cock when im sleeping. Thats what it is there for.

Xavier16 · Answer

Ladies when ur thinking of doing things like this then just do it men kove this dont give any second thoughts.

basicallybasic · Answer

I've never had any complaints 🤣

kemo56 · Answer

I'm in love with you... Oh yes I can't even think of why anyone would complain about that... I think the girls should have the answer with if they like to get woke up being played with

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Oh wow, I would love to wake up to one.. Mmmmmm!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😋😋😋😋LMFAO !!!

Angelo75 · Answer

Oh please do this every morning. I'd go to work afterwards with a smile on my face.

ColoradoKid · Answer

I would not complain.. its happened a few times in my life. I figured that it would be acceptable to wake her up in the same fashion. I once tried waking her up with me inside her. I didn't know that she was not feeling well that whole night and the rest of that day. I didn't try it again.

TeeSquare · Answer

Absolutely it is ok. Not sure of many gits who would object. It's extremely hot to be woken up this way

Makeushiver · Answer

I can't imagine anyone possibly objecting to such a lovely gesture

lukeedmonton · Answer

If you're in a relationship but don't see why not.

magiusX26 · Answer

thats something to negotiate as a part of the social contract between the 2 of you. personally i would be fine with something along those lines sometimes but not always.

HeresJames1 · Answer

If a man has a problem with that then there's something wrong with him.

Meangurl · Answer

I normally wake up first and yes I just grab my husband’s and suck he loves it

dutch69lover · Answer

Sounds like the perfect way to be woke up as long as she puts her sweetness in my face when I am woke up

Massageman · Answer

Gals, you should check somehow to be sure your guy is reasonably awake. If not, he could reflexively kick you or punch you and hurt you - you wouldn't want that. Once you know he's a little bit up, you can then proceed to get him REALLY UP!

Guys, same goes for arousing your gal. Just be sure that she's awake enough to realize it is you and not some rapist. heh heh

justaguy5612 · Answer

Depending on how high strung the guy is... some people come out of sleep swinging fists and such! I would approach the general idea of the topic during conscious time together first. Personally I would definitely approve of this treatment but I could see how it could go wrong. Nothing to upset a good mood and a horny vibe like a broken nose... 😳

newfreshstart · Answer

It's totally ok anyman would love it and appreciate it why not remove his boxers and ride him cow girl 😉

93_n_on · Answer

Yeah i'd love to wake up to a lovely lady sucking my d*ck

Friendlybro79 · Answer

This is one of my favorite things ever... So... Yes!

jmf909 · Answer

I think absolutely perfect way to wake up partner but always best to discuss first i think but if you dont like it normally then you strange anyway lol

Jake1415 · Answer

I don't completely know but, since I'm a night owl and not a morning bird, I'm... Gonna need my sleep. Though you can still wake me up with one, just sometimes.

hbg84 · Answer

Yes absolutely even better when you wake him up by riding his cock

bilco · Answer

It would be fine by me. Couldn't think of a better way to wake up

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

A husband and a wife can do what ever they want with each other, no need for the husband to ask his wife for anything...

Personally i find it too much to wake her up with a blowjob, i'll never do such a thing...

I prefer kissing her lips and touching her softly to wake her up 😊

CaptainLegal · Answer

I love it she usually does it Saturday and Sunday when I'm not working. It's like the best feeling in the world 😅 usually we end up having sex and the benefit is that I can last longer in the morning when I wake up.

RyanK9b · Answer

Sounds like a freaking dream. So yes

Opuse1530 · Answer

Nothing blows my mind and my cock more then when my lady surprises me by taking my soft cock into her mouth and sucks me until I am throbbing in her mouth until I explode. Love it... do it !!

NeedinarealLady · Answer

Please do I would love that

drayday4 · Answer

Only if you want be with him long term it's a good way to end up stuck in a relationship

Snowman666 · Answer

Yes. The greatest single thing to ever happen in the bed for me is to wake up in the middle of sex. My absoulte favorite thing to happen. Only twice has it happened and i still think about it.

clampfan101 · Answer

Not my thing. Maybe gently caressing it?

Tiffanyloves2swallow · Answer

hell yea

Dougzy · Answer

This will probably get me band" I don`t care " The men in your area must be very very strange because just based on the question above I can think of no more perfect way to be woken up " good god women you're a dream.
In fact, if you don`t block me which I highly recommend you could end up the first person to meet and marry someone on this site

Manish05 · Answer

Ask first, god knows if she files a report for rape?

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s ok with me anytime they want to

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