Is It Okay To Wake Your Partner Up With A Blowjob?

Question

Or Should You Ask FIRST? Does It Matter?

broken_heart_at_48 · Accepted Answer

Hell you can wake me up or put me to sleep with a blowjob. I've been woken up to getting a blowjob several times and not one time was I mad. Once I had never even met her before I was thrown off a little but I let her finish only one time did I trip a little and to be honest I don't remember if I stopped her or not but I woke up to a friend's older sister going at it and she was all about it I think I tried for a second to stop her but I was pretty fucked up and don't remember and we never talked or fooled around again but she was always letting me know on the sly that she wanted to get with me but she had a crazy old man plus her being a friend's sister and she was a good bit older like 10 years or more but any guy should appreciate his girl doing the deed it's like Christmas

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Omg! Does she have to ask! If I woke up to her doing that... That has to feel like heaven to wake up like that...

Girls! You want to give a man a present, that's the way to do it! Before he even wakes up, start going.

Now this is of course for the women that want to do it.

But for guys, if it's her birthday, dive in before she wakes up. That has got to be amazing!

This is of course after you are very intimate with each other. But that has got to be one of the best feelings in the world to wake up like that for either genders.

I'm gonna say, yes, as long as your both have been sexually intimate with each other regularly then for either gender this has got to be heaven

90sVibe · Accepted Answer

Well I'd pre-establish boundaries set with your partner before hand on things like this for both of you and where you're confort level are with spontaneous sexual surprises. I personally know some men who would feel violated because of personal things they went through in the past. Most guy I know would probably be more than okay with something like that. I'd just try and get an over all idea of consent for future events you or he may want to explore and surprise each other with. Respecting boundaries is very important in all dynamics of relationships and sexual ones are no exception. But have funand make the best out of every situation you can.

MrsJaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

i once surprised him with that because he had morning wood (it took time till i understood its a normal thing and accepted it) he was happy for whole week hehe and i do it when am in mood maybe twice a month and sometimes its nice to have a morning protein shake and that will make him feel unbeatable unbreakable for many days :P so yes its ok to wake him up with some love

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Depends on your partner.

Some people are okay with this. Others aren't because it feels very close to rape or taking advantage of an unconscious partner.

I'm personally not okay with this. Half because I feel rapey having it done to me or doing it myself, and half because if it were done to me I have a very strong feeling I would freak out and retaliate with blows against someone touching me like that while I'm asleep (only child who's lived alone for a few years now and is very reactive to being woken up).

wingattebaby16 · Answer

I love waking my man up with a blowjob. Usually in the morning before alarm goes off OR if I needed more when we went to bed, so I wake him up in the middle of the night, "having a wet dream"...

rkf_helps_247 · Answer

Is it okay? Oof... Fuck yes. It's the BEST WAY TO WAKE UP ? Can't think of any better way to wake up to

Lycirian · Answer

I say this. I think there is no men in the world that wouldn't like to get waked up by this kind of way.

Fatherhere901 · Answer

I'm actually thinking if you have already attempted this , and your partner says they don't appreciate it. That is your only warning about the situation. Other than that, women have a bigger discretion window when it comes to men about attempting things on them. meaning, you can pretty much do anything you want to the guy, an only after the 10th time he said no thank you, you have to take him seriously

1love2hearts · Answer

Talk about consent prior. Like babe, would you be opposed and consent to a morning blowjob some day, not necessarily tomorrow but when I'm in the mood and just did it do I have your consent? And future consent?

BarryMcKohkner · Answer

Wait what? Why is this a question lol. Yes, do it. No questions, just do it.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Usually give it to him when I wake up ahead of him.

Marcuslrh · Answer

Yeah you should already have stuff in place for that like my ex said I could just wake her up for sex whenever so you would have that conversation before hand so agree or disagree before hand on whether that would bother you or its completely fine and your in to it for future references for each other

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

You should have this conversation with your partner to see if they're okay with it or not. I'm in the club of: never assume.

Especially because dudes get hard ass weiners in the morning because they have to pee, so, precautions.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

As far as I know most guys love to be woke up like this

Ericalovescats · Answer

Maybe ask him the night before and then say "hey babe" I'd love to give you a dick sucking alarm clock" sound good? I'm pretty sure he'll love it.

Mystery1900 · Answer

Definitely - I would love to have my morning erection sucked and played with until I woke up.

triff · Answer

It's lovely to hear so many positives for such an act My only concern is that some were saying isn't it the norm or it's expected There are no rules that say this is expected and you should never do something that you don't want to do Historically Man could have what he wanted either by agreement or demand the consent This was now overuled by law and are now permitted to say no or a case of rape or secual assault But getting back to your question what a lovely way to be awkend

RJJ33666 · Answer

I would love to wake up in the morning with a blowjob. I mean, which man in their right mind would not like that. I would wish to wake up every morning like that. I would the happiest man alive. You don't need to ask me about it, I would be happy to wake up like that. You want the morning wood, don't ask just grab it.

pierre7i · Answer

It'd spoil the beautiful surprise by asking ! Waking to a lovely girl sucking + licking my always-verrry-hard morning wood would make me think I was in sexual paradise !

Porter21 · Answer

I would love to be awaken to a blow job!  I would also love to eat her pussy in return!

SjE78 · Answer

one of my oldest fantasies tbh is being woken up with a BJ, or more accurately having a woman i'd be with giving me a BJ while trying not to wake me... and waking up as I cum... :) :P :P :P