Is it rude to ask for a blowjob?

I wanna give my boyfriend one, would it be rude to flat out ask for it? I like to be polite.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe wait until he come out of the shower. Sometimes guys prefer not to get a blowjob if they know they haven't had a shower yet and it might smell. You know, it sometimes does. Just so you make sure he won't be uncomfortable. ;)

  • It wouldn't be rude to ask to give him one, but it might kill the moment. Would a spontaneous 'drop-to-the-knees' and frantically unzipping him be out of the question?

    • Perhaps you have a point

    • I love that... getting home, barely getting in the door, and she's there, kissing me, hands everywhere, undoing buttons, unzipping pants and then she's suddenly on her knees and taking me in her mouth... very exhilirating

    • Darn, even I have to admit it sounds like it.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Heck no, that's not rude. You should be able to play with and suck his cock whenever you darned well please. That's what it's there for!

  • No! He'd love it. If he's your boyfriend he's probably wondering why you haven't offered yet. Assuming you are really 18-24.

  • You don't have to ask, you can just do it, no guy will stop you =P

    • She's right

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  • Are you having sex?

    • Yes.

    • Is he dominant sexually?

    • Yeah.

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  • i dont think its rude. its not like he's some random guy. he's ur boyfriend, so its not rude :) just go for it! dont even ask, just do it!

  • Just push me onto the bed, and rape me with your tongue!!!

  • Of course not.

    • Do you not know how many guys would KILL to have a girl actually ASK if she can suck their dick?

    • CanI suck your dick? LMAO JK ADIOS

    • @MissNowhere Now that is cruel, getting my hopes up like that 😭💔😞

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  • Assuming you are over 18, you don't have to ask. Just unzip his pants.

  • No way! Even if you do it without asking him, I'm pretty sure he will love it (unless he is in a really bad mood). Guys usually never think that you are objectifying them, or anything of that sort.

  • Asking? = NOT = a TOTAL turn off
    Just doing it = :) x 1000000000000000

  • Don't be shy! Tell him u want to suck his dick :)

  • He will be flattered.

  • Of course not. Why the heck would you think that would upset him?

  • In the words of a great mind:

    https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
  • Wait you want to ask your boyfriend if you can suck his dick? .. why would that be rude lol he'll wonder if it's his birthday and he forgot haha

    • Spot on. I would think you fucked up and sideswiped my car or something. Or it was my birthday and I forgot. But either way it's not rude.

  • No, it is not rude, just do it

  • Never rude to ask.

  • Rude? I don't know. But I'd be grossed out. I'm not a fan of blowjobs.

  • I honestly find bluntness to be quite hot. I'm sure he'd appreciate it.

  • no, it would be better if you just go for it

  • I would be so turned on if a girl actually asked me but also suspicious

  • no... it's the point.

  • I'm sure he'll have no problem with that

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