Is it true that all guys would smash their friend that’s a girl if given the chance?

I always hear that even if you have a guy friend who you think is purely a friend that they have still thought about having sex with you and would if given the chance?
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  • Sadly in this day and age that is often the case. There's very few sadly who wouldn't even do such a thing. But many that would. I believe as another person had already clearly says. If your overall are sexually attracted to him that's basically is what he's going to want at some point. If he doesn't get a relationship out of you or even sucks, he may move on to another girl. Sadly that's how fickle people are today with their so-called relationship. I have my male friends that I have, but it's very few. The ones I have is who I have. And to be honest they probably won't go to be the only few male friends are never going to really have. Unless they are way younger than me, and below my level. Sadly beyond that is going to be very hard.

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  • PHYSICAL atavistic desire FOR MALES exists as the 'bedrock' subconscious awareness.
    Nature has evolved males to BE human DNA syringes... our 'reason d'etre' ... regardless of their social relationship to a female. Be they daughters, sisters, mothers, cousins, platonic friends or reciprocally-aroused total strangers~

    In my lifetime, I have been blessed with the offer of intimate companionship of forty-six females.
    I have only refused four, three of whom were legally too young~ Doesn't mean I DIDN'T fantasize, but that psyche over-ruled innate appetites.

    To date, it has been MY subjective experience that EVERY female's "orgasm face" is BEAUTIFUL.
    Only at that moment, is she her TRUEIST animal Self.

    "When I have brought forth her feral Lioness, when she has taken ALL that I can give her.
    NEVER is she MORE beautiful to me" -the Marquis De' Sade

  • I have had a couple of female friends that I have thought about having sex with. If you are around a girl enough, and she is likable, then it comes to mind. Having it come to mind, is different from going for it. I have valued my friendships with my friends who are girls, and so I avoid what would lead to sex with them, as I want to keep the friendships. I know that is we had sex, it would change from a friendship to a relationship, which too often end in a break up, and no more friendship. That doesn't mean that I couldn't fall in love with a female friend. If I did, then I would go for the relationship. But I don't see seek a romantic relationship, unless I was falling for her.

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  • Nah. My guy friends don't seem sexually interested in me

    • That’s nice

    • Yeah, allows me to relax. They've all seen me naked

    • "My guy friends don't seem sexually interested in me." Translation: "My guy friends lack the confidence to act on their desires."

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  • It's OVERWHELMINGLY true, but, yes, there are a few rare exceptions, so it's not 100% true. Just 99+% true.

  • Not really, I'm pretty sure all the women who are my friends that I was going to sleep with I already have slept with. If they wanted me, something would have happened there by now, and I have no interest in a dead fish lay, out of obligation, trade, or w/e. I only want women who want me with rabid desire whether it's for a night or a decades.

  • True that

  • Many guys would love the chance to do that. But many are really good guys and not trying for that. Still, if they happened to have an encounter, he would certainly enjoy it. Then some of those would continue being good friends, others would change their attitude.

  • Been saying that on this site since I joined. 99 % yes.

  • Of course they do... Duh

  • No, I have female friends, yes I had fantasizes with them. After we both talked about feelings and she made clear that she´s interested in any kind of relationship with me, I stopped with that. The reason I like how things are going and because I don´t want to risk or loose that friendship and I´m not giving sex any thoughts.

  • Nothing but the truth.

  • Most of my male friends had at least one go in at least one hole in my body

    • You sound like an especially nice friend @Andreapuss

    • @pierre7i thank you. My friends all know who will take care of them

    • To do that and still remain good friends sounds like an excellent and comfortable relationship. Would not work for all, but great when it does.

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  • It depends on so many things, but mainly depends on the type of friendship.
    Are you in that situation now?
    Follow me if you want to talk about it

  • Honestly? Yes I would, especially because she's very attractive

    • Actually, in truth I already do have sex sometimes with my best female friend, we are occasional °fwb's° and it"s nice for both of us when we do get to be sexual with each other

  • I am not thinking of having sex with them, BUT if we were both single and one asked me to have sex with her, I would do it. I wouldn’t ask one of them to do that, though.

  • A guy will fuck a microwaved cantaloupe.

  • Most of my friends are women and I have no desire to have sex with any of them. I'm also bisexual and have no desire to have sex with any of my male friends either.

    • That’s a nice change from what every other guy is saying haha

  • Yes, of course. Mother Nature has programmed males to lust after females. Remember, familiarity breeds...

  • I think most guys think about it.

  • Not all of guys would smash their female friends but MOST of them probably would.

  • Sadly yes the overpowering majority are... What can I say we're hunters and we're never satisfied...

  • Well there's a revelation for you, young lady! At some point, all of your guy friends have had this thought go through their head - " Is she doable? Would I if I could?" That doesn't mean they act on it. The longer they know you, they more they may value your friendship over all else if you're not attracted to them "romantically" and it would a lost cause to try for you. But make no mistake - you've been evaluated for sex by all your male friends.

  • That is a crass question... in any chance... men are unfaithful same as women... I have had 3 men as friends... and not push me to cheat

    • Who is talking about cheating? Imagine you are SINGLE, and you are friends with a woman. Now that female "friend" makes it clear that she'd like to have sex with you - would you say "no way" or would you sleep with this person who you obviously like and find attractive as a person?

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