I've never dated a guy who asked. I think they want someone they can respect. If you're haven't been cheating on past partners, quickly leaving one partner for the next guy that gives you attention, not off have group sex in the middle of a party that people will talk about it for a decade, things like that are bad and he's not likely to trust you, respect you, or take you seriously as a partner. The actual number is not the important part.
0 0 0 0they don’t ask cause they know i’m gonna lie. so i guess they look for other clues.
If you haven't been married and you're reaching older ages, no one is going to expect you say something like. I've only had 3 sexual partners. When you're 35 years old, it just doesn't work like that
It is very true. Why should guys want a girl with a past like that.
The thing is, you can't hide it forever. It is also not the basis for a successful relationship. Lie to a guy, and later, he finds out from another source, he will probably make your life hell for wasting his time. He might even spread the news around.0 1 0 1
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When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.
0 0 0 0You shouldn't keep it a secret
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3 13I think some guys just might be worried about STDs/STIs and if the girl is possibly passive.
0 0 0 0In a relationship? No. They don't want to be known as "that guy with a 'loose' girlfriend" yet they would at least wanna fuck her as long as they don't have to have a relationship with her.
0 1 0 0The more secure a guy is in his sexuality the less likely he is to care about body count. This isn't correlated with sexual orientation, as far as I'm aware - though it would make sense that a guy who is totally secure in his sexuality wouldn't have qualms with poking a guy in the butt or whatever, despite having no attraction to men - which can seem a little gay.
1 0 0 0Yes and no. If a guy really wants a girl he isn’t going to care about how many people she has screwed. However, having a high body count will make more guys wary or insecure because they’ll worry about her cheating. Many young people have a high body count when they’re exploring their sexual desires and figuring out what they want. As they grow older, they’ll realize that they need commitment and want a serious relationship.
0 1 0 0For me it's true.
Why would I want to be in a long term relationship with a slut that's proud of being a slut?0 0 0 0Some times what's your body count
0 0 0 0over 20. i lost count after 20
That is both true and false, It all depends on the guy.
0 0 0 0I personally don't care
0 0 0 0No, of course not
However, he may start to wonder, right?0 0 0 0High body count is not as relevant as personality and principles.
0 0 0 0Why hide it? It's no one business. Even if they ask you. Hell, my body count before I, turned 30 was crazy. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of being you.
0 0 0 0Depends on a lot of things, other than just her “count”
0 0 0 0I just don't want it to burn when I pee, that's all.
0 0 0 0I would say not a problem and then have sex with you few times and after say I can't date you. lol
0 0 0 0Most guys will pass on girls with a lot. Just give lower number--most girls do that.
0 0 0 0I'd be extremely mad if you hid it from me.
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