Is it wrong to be in a relationship with a guy just because the sex is too good?

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  • No idea why it should be wrong. If you both like having sex together, affection will naturally develop, because having good sex also means having attention for each other's pleasure. Feeling the sex together as good is also one of the most important practical conditions for a good long term relation. Now, the answer may vary according what you call having good sex ; what it really involves between you both in practice. For instance, if one of the two partners just let the other do as they wants, and the former feels happy because the latter is happy, the situation may be stuck after some time, and then I guess some people will start asking questions... In any case, it is not wrong ; maybe only a choice, or taking advantage of a particular situation. Why not actually?

Most Helpful Guy

  • No it is not wrong... but I would hope you are being honest with him about it. It is wrong if this guy is totally falling in love with you and you don't share the same feelings... but as long as you tell him that you are only interested in the sex and he keeps coming round then your good to keep going without any moral issues.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Let me see if I understand your question correctly?

    You are not into him emotionally and for a long term commitment but just as a place holder for sex until the right guy does come along.

    If I am understanding it right, than it would be ok if both of you understood and agreed to that.

    However, if he is emotionally invested in you and doesn't know he is just being used, than you are involved in the worst form of psychological torture and emotional abuse, setting him up for a crash and burn heart break experience, and yes, that is very wrong.

    Is it wrong to be in a relationship with a guy just because the sex is too good?
    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you?

  • Yes. There’s other aspects to a relationship that make it long lasting. Great sex only doesn’t make a relationship last. Libidos start to die down at certain ages, or certain life events and that can make someone venture out and cheat.

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you?

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  • I don't think it is wrong, but sooner or later it's going to fall apart. What happens though since you don't love him when someone you love comes along? Do you cheat or try to make a switch?

    Its kind of hard to make a switch, while still in one relationship.

  • In my opinion it's only wrong if both people aren't on the same page about it. If that's all both of you are looking for and you're honest about it with each other, it's okay but if one of you wants someting more, than it could be hurtful.

  • It's wrong if you're using him

  • I mean, if that's all you want, to get fucked, then that's fine.

  • Not at all. He’s made a choice to be with you. Just be honest with him.

  • Of course not. Good dick, like good pussy is addictive.

  • If there's no love there, then there's no point and the relationship is bound to fall apart anyway.

  • What kind of relationship, romantic where your considering long term, or are you just doing an friends with benefits relationship. Don't make him think there is future potential if there is none as your wasting his youth and time.

    Otherwise, nothing wrong with it and I'd love to find someone to give her really good sex in some sort of mutual arrangement.

  • No, sometimes relationships based on sex can be very fulfilling and enjoyable.

  • Be open to the fact about the relationship.

    It's not bad at all if both know the fact.

    It should not be sexual for you and emotional for the other person.

    That will fuck up everything.

  • I mean If sex is the foundation of your relationship it is doomed to fail

  • I would probably do it.

  • If that how you two have defined the relationship.

  • If he is emotionally invested in the relationship you will end up hurting him. You should tell him you are only with him for the sex.

  • If he's a bad person or treats you badly, then yes it's wrong. If he's not a bad person, have your fun.

  • Some people will say its shallow, but guys do the the same thing.

  • There are many different kinds of relationships out there as long as both part know its not wrong 😊

  • lol. It's fine. I am sure many of us have done the same. I am jealous, but good for you.

  • No. I got married just for this

  • yea it is

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