Is losing virginity at 30 weird?

Question

I want to lose it after marriage at age 30.  I don't think 30 is too late for marriage. What do you think?

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

I think you are holding out on one of the greatest pleasures in life. I lost mine at 25. Now I am 41 and starting to have a harder time with sex because of my age. It is a bit more difficult to maintain an erection and orgasms aren't as intense as they use to be. Somewhat normal with getting older. I would have rather started having sex a bit earlier in life because 20 - 30 is certainly prime health range for having a great sex life. You won't be young for ever. I think you will come to regret waiting.

Bango · Accepted Answer

You see.. the problem is that people doesn't see the story from this side (you wanted to save yourself until marriage)
But instead they get it like (you didn't even have the opportunity so you didn't have any other chance)
But anyway it's normal for a woman to stay virgin until she gets married
It's what it's supposed to be😊

SunnyCaliGirl · Accepted Answer

Society onlys says its weird and usual, and there is nothing wrong with that, the peer pressure of society should not dictate how you should live your life, YOU BE YOU!! :)

karahiri · Accepted Answer

life is unpredictable, you might not get married at 30, maybe earlier, maybe later. i think it isn't all that helpful to set those age limits on yourself

kimichi · Accepted Answer

It's fine, there is no rule for losing it at a certain age

beccaboo2 · Accepted Answer

Why do you want to get married at 30 and not sooner?

America1st · Answer

What everybody thinks doesn't matter. If the person waits that long, they did what they want, not what others think about them. It is very unusual, but not all people that age go around telling everybody. Getting married at 30 is nothing.

dogbert444 · Answer

None of the above. It's simply fine. Whatever is right for YOU!

NJ_Casanova · Answer

30yr? I guess you aren't thinking about kids? If you want more than one it gets much harder in your mid 30s.

AndyOh · Answer

So, you are 21 and want to wait till you are 30 to marry and then lose you virginity? OK, good luck with that.
I don't think I would plan out my life like that. You never know what will happen in 9 years and who you will meet. And I would read other posts about waiting till marriage before you choose that route.

slatyb · Answer

That's a long time to wait. As a guy I would be wondering if you would be willing to meet my needs.

SC4321 · Answer

Not weird, but why set an age? If you meet a great guy you want to get married before 30 why not just do it? There's no point in setting an age for that stuff to happen, you just can't plan it.

cth96190 · Answer

Why are you going to wait until 30? Your best child-bearing years are during your 20s.

genericname85 · Answer

30 isn´t late for marriage in my opinion but not wanting to test or "practice" things before is a little weird. i know conservatives preach that you should only do it with one guy but hasn´t society evolved beyond that? sex is a beautiful thing you can enjoy with a person you like. doesn´t need to be the partner you gonna stay with forever. i´m telling you now that you are making it very hard on you to find a partner at all like this. let alone a decent one.

BoobMan · Answer

It seems a bit of a shame. Saving sex until after 30 is kind of like saving going to Disneyland until after you've graduated from college. It'll still be fun but you will have missed out on a LOT of prime time awesomeness and magic.