Is my boyfriend straight?

Question

In the beginning of our relationship I didn't suspect my boyfriend is gay/bisexual but I have my suspicions now. Before we dated he told me when he was a child (about 7) he explored oral sex with one of his male friends. he swears it was an mistake that happened once but he doesn't even like talking it out now. Prior to our relationship, he was also living with his best friend who he admitted was bisexual but he says they had never done anything. He also worked with a guy who was bisexual and told me stories about him saying his coworker gave him a lighter w/ a gay man on it and how it made uncomfortable. I asked him why he still speaks to him and he said bc he's not a homophobe or anything. Some of his friends and their gfs make jokes about his ex being a "man", I guess by the way she presents herself. And lastly, we moved to a different place which was closer to his childhood best friend, who did nothing but complain about me to him. They would mention getting there butthole licked by girls and anal sex (both of which my boyfriend never talked about before). When my boyfriend gets upset or distant w/, I saw messages from his best friend saying he loves him. One time his bestfriend mentioned he was going to let girls live in his house and my boyfriend just gave him a long stare. He used to clean houses and he would have his friends there helping him. Sometimes he would even rather hang out with his guy friends instead of going to work. He can't stand when I ask him if he's bi/gay, he swears he's not but things sound weird. Does this sound suspicious or am I being crazy?

lil_bih · Accepted Answer

it sounds very suspicious... but if u want my opinion I would go up to him and say "u know what I'm tired of this. this seems to suspicious u better tell me what the fuck is going on y r u talking about these things to yr friend who supposably y'all touched each other... if u won't tell me what's going on where fucking done" but that's me... sorry when I was reading it it was fr making me so mad for u like even though I don't know u I feel like I should catch that fade for u✨

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lick his butt, try anal play dudes love that shit. Especially while you give him a hand job or blow job. He could be bi you always test him with" I want to peg you" (fuck him with a strap on) if you have a problem with him being bi then break up with. If he can't control the urges but you guys do need to talk about this

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why are you asking him that shit over and over again?
If I ever suspected my boyfriend was gay, I wouldn't be waiting around for him to reassure me he is not. Or will keep on dating him even if he's bi?
Either way, maybe not gay but seems like he likes anal stuff. Another decision for you to make.

Gazelle0330 · Accepted Answer

Being bi myself I don't see anything here that really stands out as being gay or bi. As for the I love you messages from his best friend that can mean a lot of things. I tell my friends all the time that I love them so I think thats more casual than you believe. And personally I also prefer hanging out with guy friends mainly because I can lay back and be more stupid with them XD. I dont think he's into other men but I think more proof is necessary for me to suspect that

Xelight · Accepted Answer

It's most likely that you are only partially right. For example, maybe he is bisexual towards sex but straight when it comes to developing feelings for someone. Maybe he actually never cheated on you but everything else is true.

Also, liking women with male features, aka tomboyish females, is not indicative of anything if you ask me.