Is sex for women’s pleasure too?

Growing up in a woman only household and being taught that men are evil, vile creatures had really done a number on my psyche. I’ve been with my partner for 8 years and there were always times I felt terrified even though he never did anything. And my brain is always coming to new conclusions and realizations - do men feel really good knowing when they make a women feel good? Is part of a good sexual experience for a man also making sure the women feels good? I always assumed sex was just for the men to relieve themselves. Do guys like hearing a women moan or even scream and it’s not just an annoying thing? I was only ever taught about how rape works and not anything else so it’s hard

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  • Absolutely, you should be enjoying many orgasms.

  • I think everyone is entitled to own their sexuality and believe in their value system

  • I sure hope so... I spend the entire time trying to make sure the girl is enjoying it. I know I'll get off regardless

  • As far as I'm concerned, it's primarily for a woman's pleasure.

  • Absolutely 💯

  • For men and women

  • Sorry to hear you were raised by/with feminists. I hope you are able to overcome the damage done to you by your mother. At least you've managed to maintain a relationship with a man for 8 years. You're doing better than most girls raise in your circumstances.

    Best of luck to you (and your man).

  • I hope this doesn't come across as rude, that isn't my intention, but it's really sad you were raised to think this way about men. Most men love the idea that they are pleasing there women. It seems you're already doing so, but please keep an open mind about men. There will be some men who fit the bill of what you've been taught, but most people, men included, are decent people.