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Sexual Health Girls, Is the attractiveness of a guy all based on personality? Aren't there other factors?
iCroissant Xper 6
Girls so often say "size doesn't matter" but then say they want a strong guy who can protect them. Or a guy who knows how to take care of his body. Or that a guy is judged first by his face. We have more control over these things than penis size, but it's still nearly impossible for some of us. I'm 5'7" and 150 pounds, moderately fit and that's as tall as I'm ever going to be, and with a TON of working out and never eating things I want to eat I can maybe get up to 160 and be a Bruce Lee (who was actually a short guy). Anyway, my question is: how important are these things? Height, muscle, weight, and face.
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What Girls Said
(20)Physical Appearance matters to me but he doesn't have to be model or actor type. He takes good care of his body dresses well and is confident. I'll be attracted to him. And his penis size truly doesn't matter to me.
For me, the attractiveness comes mainly with the personality
phew thats a relief :D i think?
Looks matter too.
Very important actually.
Depends on who you ask. Personally I think looks matter if it's related to hygiene and all, but I try not to judge.
Every girl has an image of what their "ideal" boyfriend looks/acts. BUT in the end your personality should be the determining factor. Like my "ideal" boyfriend is blonde, blue or green eyes and is funny, sweet, and knows how to treat a girl. But the guy I like doesn't match the look I prefer. What he does have is an outstanding personality. (I'll admit it did take longer for me to think of him as more than a friend, but it happened!)
Height, muscle and face I don't see really. Weight I do see but I can ignore it depending on how well we get along and how much I like you personality.
I guess sometimes things BECOME attractive for people, like the more time they spend with that person the more attractive they become. thats how it is with me anyway, but its that initial attraction that convinces me to go ask for her name, thats where people are REALLY judged
Physical attractiveness will always be important. We are attracted to people's looks because of our instinct to reproduce with healthy and strong people. I've never understood why some people think that women don't think looks matter, I've never met a woman in my life who didn't think looks were important when finding someone to date.
Of course though, looks aren't the only thing that matters. Personality is always going to be a HUGE factor.
Personally, I like men who are a bit muscular, but that's because I'm very active and work out a lot and so I want someone who's into that same lifestyle as me. However, I'd probably date someone who isn't too, it's not a deal breaker. Height isn't a huge thing for me, I know some girls really like tall guys, but I don't care that much. I know this is a bit of an old fashioned belief, but I want a guy who's strong and can protect me, it's just very attractive to me.
what if that guy kept a glock under his pillow, hmm? :P