I find it sad there are some men in their mid 30's that obviously have been around the block but still demand a virgin because ''omg even if a woman had 2 long-term relationships, then she's still damaged goods to him''.
It's one thing if it's coming from a HS guy or maybe his early college years but already between 35-40 years old and still be fixated on virgins? Isn't that already weird and not normal by then? The older you get, the less likely you're going to find a virgin.
It’s circumstantial. The past is the past to me. I never cared if I dated a virgin or not.
But I understand people want to be the first for someone you love. I think it’s ok to want a virgin if you are also a virgin. But if you won’t date virgins when you already have had sex, it’s a little contradictory.
That’s a red flag at any age.
Usually they are long past virginity status, don't even plan on going through the whole marriage process and just want virgins for the sake of being with a virgin. Those are creeps.
Exactly. I agree with you. To be honest, I think those who demand virgins and are not a virgin themselves are wrong at any age. I don’t care if you’re 18 years old. It’s one thing to be turned on by a virgin. It’s another to require a virgin.
Yes and that's what makes a preference different from a fixation. I love natural red-haired men for instance (ok that's a preference) but I'm not going to just focus on that when there can be other good men out there. Unlike those obsessed with virgin women, red hair would just be a bonus but not required at all.
Just like it is creepy for a woman to want a tall man when she isn't tall, or want a man that makes good money when she doesn't make an equal amount of money, or a woman that has had an abortion not wanting a convicted murderer.
Any time someone is fixated on something so much that you reduce your dating pool and ignore other good candidates it's not good anymore and it isn't a preference by then. It becomes an obsession. If the guy that wanted a tall man kept focusing on just 6'0 or above and nothing else, just that and had bad luck finding a suitable serious mate, that would be her fault for ignoring the others. I loved red-haired men for instance (red hair is so unique) but I'm not going to be fixating and obsessing on it to the point of ignoring the other men that are marriage-minded and have other good traits.
Any time someone becomes too fixated and obsessive with a preference it's creepy.
if they're a virgin themselves it's never creepy. if they're not a virgin i'd say 23-24 for it being weird. once they're pushing 30 that's when it gets creepy. only exception is if they became this super religious person and they've been abstaining for years and now want a virgin wife. in that case i'd say it's also never creepy
Thank you. My post was for those non-virgins that have been around the block, aren't even going to proceed with marriage and are just with her because of her virginity. I have a soft spot for virgin males requesting their virgin females; that's different. They are indeed within their rights.
I never care about these type of people they tend to be the ugliest and weird people, especially the guys on here that, I see say it. If any virgin woman was dumb enough to mate with them that's on them LOL
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!it's a personal preference... why do you care? In the end he will be alone expecting impossible, not you :D
It isn't just personal preference. They are obsessed and fixated on that while disrespecting and regarding other women (people) as trash or using them. That's the trait of a narcissist.
but you don't need to date them... and it IS their personal preference... and if they disrespect you, say them what you think and leave... you can't change people... but you can change your way of perceiving them and your reactions
It's creepy at any age, lol.
Honestly I just think it's a coping mechanism for those types of guys.
I find that obsession creepy. It's like they got stunt in their development.
That's for sure. I'm totally fine with virgins wanting another virgin, but it's honestly laughable for a pre used, damaged male to see his female equals negatively.
I'm aware we are less likely to find a virgin with age but I don't want to compromise on a ho.
How is a woman that had a long-term relationship a ho?
Not long enough, should stayed with him, not jump from D to D of bunch of dudes.
If he cheated on her or suddenly changes his mind on something important such as (having vs not ever having kids) then she's under no obligation to stay with him.
Any guy past 20 years old, demanding a virgin... must be from another planet!
lot of em r hypocrites
for demanding a virgin while they aren't a one
This basically. They are they demanding and placing a standard they can't give themselves? At least if he were a virgin then that's different.
It's creepy and weird at any age.
No, also most men who only want a virgin woman, are also virgins themselves.
I'm still a virgin, and if I'm saving myself for marriage, I deserve to have the same consideration.
That's different than the non-virgin men that have had several gfs in the past (even hook-ups) and still demanding a virgin.
Any non virgin does not deserve a virgin in my opinion, regardless of how old they are.
If he’s also a virgin he has every right to demand/want a virgin no matter how old he is because in that case his not setting any double standards.
In that case yes. That's the exception and I won't agree against it. Yes he is in his rights. The types I'm talking about are those that are long past virginity status, they had already even been with hookers, use other women that aren't virgins (even disrespect them and brag about using women) but still demand a virgin.
Yeah no I hear you!, those guys are insane 💯 to be avoided at all costs because what the actual heck 😖
I feel sorry for the woman because those guys don't really like her as a person and her many other traits nor care if she's even compatible to him in other ways. Let's say that 35-40 year-old finds himself a virgin, great but she's really asexual, never wants kids and likes other hobbies he's not into or had different political views and ideas? So he really doesn't know her at all besides just being a virgin.
Perhaps that is why he's still a virgin.
in my opinion any guy who isn't a virgin is a creep if he "demands" that a girl be a virgin
After 18.
I think it's not creepy for a man to want a virgin as long as he himself is still a virgin.
That I agree. However, if he's not and has had tons of gfs or already had a couple relationships but still expects a virgin, then he's a hypocrite.
Yuppers
I hope I'm not still a virgin when I'm 30. That would be terrible if haven't found anyone to share my life with then.
Well im still virgin because im impotent for years
That's different and you would be an exception. You can seek a virgin if that's what you want. Those that aren't, disrespect other women, are much older and still demand a virgin are the creepy ones.
Thank you! I still think that even a virgin dont want like me
I agree with you it is creepy and weird for a man to have had multiple partners to demand a virgin... Especially the guys that are around my age cause chances are you won't find a 34 year old virgin so what are you really asking for
Anyone would starve if they got a buck for every 34-year-old virgin.
Facts!!!
It’s weird at any age
it's not weird. used up women are good for nothing. we can just go to starbucks and find teenagers
at age 40 (assuming you want a 28 to 35 year-old women and not college aged girls), you realize you're the chances of landing a virgin is very slim by then?
If you're after teenagers at age 40, that makes you a creep
Creepy much, war_daddy?
whatever age if they search for virgin they are assholes.
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