Is this a common fantasy?

Question

Sometimes when I’m at the beach or pool I think about men checking me out or touching me as I swim or tan. Normally something I think it’s creepy but for some reason with the right person, it seems sexy.

Leavesbound · Accepted Answer

You just hit the nail on the head. The difference between sexy and creepy isn't the action but whose doing it.

A girl I once dated said that she wouldn't mind if a certain celebrity broke into her home and forced himself on her.

Robert_ · Accepted Answer

I don't find it strange as a fantasy. But there is a difference between fantasising about something and you actually wanting it to happen. Having non consensual sex is a surprisingly common fantasy but just a fantasy.

sexywinterberry · Accepted Answer

sometimes i have fantasy, something similar to yours where, I am sunbathing with my to undone and see someone hot and look up a bit too far and i flash whoever is there, hopefully they see, but everyone... hehe

AustinMan · Answer

Sounds normal to me.

ohshee · Answer

It definitely has to be the right person and it has to be done with seduction and passion slow motion and deep. It is slow long type of foreplay that would just tease you to no end it gets you so hot and still not give it to you yeah this is one of my fantasies I mean I could go on I could tell you the whole scenario

summiter · Answer

It is normal and ok for you to feel that way. Do you ever see guys at the beach or pool you would want to have sex with?

abc3643 · Answer

This is pretty normal and natural. We all want to be touched - just not without permission from someone we don't want.

Porter21 · Answer

Sounds normal to me! I am always checking girls out all the time! It would turn me on to be checked out by girls!

MotorcycleMan · Answer

That often tends to be the dividing line between sexy and creepy. The right person :)

Dargil · Answer

Sure. You want to be desired.

exitseven · Answer

Everyone has fantasies. This one sounds pretty normal.

Andres77 · Answer

As a fantasy it's mild and fun. My wife had and has many like that. No worries. Enjoy.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes Its quite normal, and lots of guys will have similar fantasies about you.

FireFox001 · Answer

That's the problem. It's creepy if some ugly random dude does it. But when your ideal, it is hot. How the hell qould any guy know which group they are in?

Oddi_211 · Answer

Getting checked out, dont think so. Makes you feel sexy. It‘s a compliment and ego push. Getting touched would seem too far for my taste

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

"with the right person", that's the thing that wouldn't make it creepy.. so then technically, it's not a fantasy, it's just called, having a boyfriend