Is this a common fantasy?

Sometimes when I’m at the beach or pool I think about men checking me out or touching me as I swim or tan. Normally something I think it’s creepy but for some reason with the right person, it seems sexy.
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  • You just hit the nail on the head. The difference between sexy and creepy isn't the action but whose doing it.

    A girl I once dated said that she wouldn't mind if a certain celebrity broke into her home and forced himself on her.

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  • I don't find it strange as a fantasy. But there is a difference between fantasising about something and you actually wanting it to happen. Having non consensual sex is a surprisingly common fantasy but just a fantasy.

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  • sometimes i have fantasy, something similar to yours where, I am sunbathing with my to undone and see someone hot and look up a bit too far and i flash whoever is there, hopefully they see, but everyone... hehe

    • Do you like to be groped?

    • I have actually once seen something like that.

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  • Sounds normal to me.

  • It definitely has to be the right person and it has to be done with seduction and passion slow motion and deep. It is slow long type of foreplay that would just tease you to no end it gets you so hot and still not give it to you yeah this is one of my fantasies I mean I could go on I could tell you the whole scenario

  • It is normal and ok for you to feel that way. Do you ever see guys at the beach or pool you would want to have sex with?

  • This is pretty normal and natural. We all want to be touched - just not without permission from someone we don't want.

  • Sounds normal to me! I am always checking girls out all the time! It would turn me on to be checked out by girls!

  • That often tends to be the dividing line between sexy and creepy. The right person :)

  • Sure. You want to be desired.

  • Everyone has fantasies. This one sounds pretty normal.

  • As a fantasy it's mild and fun.
    My wife had and has many like that.
    No worries.
    Enjoy.

  • Yes Its quite normal, and lots of guys will have similar fantasies about you.

  • That's the problem. It's creepy if some ugly random dude does it. But when your ideal, it is hot.

    How the hell qould any guy know which group they are in?

  • Getting checked out, dont think so. Makes you feel sexy. It‘s a compliment and ego push. Getting touched would seem too far for my taste

  • "with the right person", that's the thing that wouldn't make it creepy.. so then technically, it's not a fantasy, it's just called, having a boyfriend

  • Do you ever imagine him undoing your top or bottoms, or vice versa?

  • That is normal, for example when I see sexy girls on the beach, I am thinking different kind of fantasy too..

  • Sounds normal

  • It is sexy, if you feel safe

  • Yes, you are typical.

    Is this a common fantasy?
  • That is indeed sexy.. sadly most women would react very nasty to that, through I must say once on a bus a woman was groping me constantly.

  • Very common. I have same fantasy.

    • fucking sexyyyy