Is virginity important?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

No, it's not. It was when there were no condoms and no contraception. It's estimated that at over point 20% of the adults in London were infected with syphilis. Life speaks were much shorter. Young women we marrying in their mid-teens.

Today we have the means to prevent both STD transmission and unwanted pregnancy. We live much longer and many delay marriage into their mid-twenties or later. Few want to remain chaste for ten or more years after puberty.

[RavVid]

Men see sexual fidelity as important since otherwise we have less assurity of paternity. We do have DNA tests now but that is a weak reed. If 2 of three children are yours it is worse than if none were.

So virginity is important to some men as it speaks to the woman's sexual morals.

It also speaks to how seriously a woman views marriage. I might think a virgin would be less likely to divorce me after 8 years and two kids to go find herself.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It all depends on the person themselves, how they feel about their own, and how they view it.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't know anyone for whom it is an important thing...

[Abbycado]

Important for what? I have mine but I don’t put it on the mantle or anything. It hasn’t won me any awards either.

[Berethor]

It can win you a good husband, who want to marry a ho? virgin women are best.

[molonski2]

Its certainly not important to me now , but it never really was , long term it doesn't matter.

[Samantha36]

Nope

[b_lova]

Only to the person holding it and the person taking it. Beyond that no one cares accept the person who missed out on it.

[RebelinSteel]

To the person whose virginity it is.
it’s not like there is a big flashing light saying virgin, no one know apart from the girl, not her friends, her parents, nor her doctor.

[Berethor]

I don't want used goods, I don't want a ho that jumped from D to D, so yea it's important.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[b_lova]

So are you still a virgin?

[SueShe]

Unfortunately, the statement is not entirely true. Lot of women lose their hymen without even knowing it. Doing sporting activities such as horseback riding or artistic gymnastics may lead to a tear in the hymen. While they are theoretically still virgins, their hymens are broken.

[Berethor]

Why you think that I am going to tell you? it more important to men than to women.

allthetropes.org/.../Mama%27s_Baby,_Papa%27s_Maybe

[Berethor]

@SueShe heard about side saddle? it was made for virgins, anyway hymen is the proof.

[b_lova]

You were proud to announce your portion on the subject. I figured you would be proud to announce your own physical state on the subject too. Just trying to see if your a hypocrite. Most of the guys who take your position are so I was looking for confirmation.

[b_lova]

*position not portion

[Berethor]

Men and women are not the same, yes I am proud about not wanting a non-virgin.

[b_lova]

As I thought, you have had sex with some women and fulfilled you carnal desires but expect some gorl to have waited for you to fulfill hers. Why would you think it's acceptable for you but not her? I have never understood that double standard. A smart woman you will never find, because if she understands this about you she will avoid you like a plague.

[Berethor]

You don't really know me, man is going to be bushed by random strangers whatever he say that he a virgin or non-virgin, a female virgin on the other hand is almost always held in high regard, I don't care if a famale virgin want to date only a male virgin, but the fact is that men tend to care about the other side's virginity much more than women.

[b_lova]

If you think women don't care about guys sexual experience then you haven't been paying attention to this website. It's riddled with women asking questions about the subject. And men do care about the women's virginity, but that's often because of insecurities men have about her experiences and the size of a cock she has taken. I don't know you, I'm not trying to bash you personally, but the ideas behind your statement. I don't have to know you to know the type of one sided, hypocritical expectations someone who will make that statement will place on the woman. I personally think it's wrong to expect her to be a virgin and it's not about her virginity but about the expectation you have for her to have resisted her sexual desire when you were not strong enough to resist your own. Men and women are different, but our desire to have our sexual needs met is the same. The idea that because she is no longer a virgin she is not good enough to marry, should go both ways, if you want to take that position. While culturally you may think it is okay that doesn't make it okay. Because it's never okay to say, "what's good for me is not good for the". Husband and wife should be treated with equal respect in all things.

[mandyfire98]

Not really. Maybe if you're ultra religious or something. But once you've lost your virginity nothing changes at all. You're still you. No change.

[wiltingrosepetal]

It does not impact anything other than the male mind lmao

[Tim2nice]

A lot of females as well.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Virgins are fine, nonvirgins are fine. We just don't want a manwhore whose gotten with more than 10 people

[Tim2nice]

Don’t get a manwhore then. But you might pass that threshold yourself

[wiltingrosepetal]

I don't know what you mean by 'threshold' lol

[Asker]

Where are you from sis

[Tim2nice]

You said anyone who’s had over 10 sexual partners is a manwhore. If you pass that number what would that make you?

[wiltingrosepetal]

So no one wants a whore 💀 Yout point?

[Tim2nice]

I don’t care. If I like a woman she could fuck 10 men every day and it wouldn’t bother me

[wiltingrosepetal]

That's called being cuckholded 😄

[kinkynicci]

Not like it used to be

[tzdc21]

It's highly desirable, but when it comes to dating, most guys don't expect it because it's incredibly hard to find a virgin woman nowadays, so they just opt for her to not be ran through most of the time. But it's easy to find a virgin man.

[AviatorTom]

Statistically, virginity cannot be very important. We are all virgins... until we are not.

[Bricealan]

Not in my opinion

[SweetDripp]

It’s a matter of personal opinion. Some people value virginity and some don’t.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Ditto 😋🙂

[Dargil]

It is to Virgins and Muslims.

[JacobJordan]

Absolutely

[Tim2nice]

Not at all. It’s absurd and against nature.

[Fireguy17]

Not to me.
I prefer someone with experience.

[Hellur991]

Yes 1 less person to catch anything fatal

[laly520]

depends on person

[itsclearlynicholas]

Preach it lady 🤲🏻

[bowenw]

Irrelevant.