Just found out my girlfriend had a threesome in college?

Question

I dumped her and she thinks its a dumb reason to dump somebody. how do you feel about this.

Rissyanne · Answer

Are you looking for a virgin?

Angie221 · Answer

If it was before you met her... then you shouldn't get upset

MrAtticusLebowski · Answer

It doesn't matter if we think it's dumb or not. You two would have broken up in the end. One of you is less of a prude than the other.

Anongirl6 · Answer

She can't change the past and it certainly doesn't affect your relationship in the here and now. Unless she wants more threesomes. She was in college and was young and stupid. She could've just been naive and wanted to try something different that she may not have been comfortable with. But if it's a deal breaker for you, it's a deal breaker.

Cosytoasty · Answer

How we feel doesn't really matter. The question is, how do YOU feel?

Personally i wouldn't have dumped her over that if everything else in the relationship was going along swimmingly, but it's your call.

If you feel liberated, then you did the right thing.

Prof_Don · Answer

Not everyone's sexuality is the same, you're just not at a level of kink that she is at.

Keep this in mind; most girls will NEVER tell you EVERYTHING about their sexual history, unless you have displayed yourself to her as either really sexually open, or very non-judgmental.

So almost every girl you will date in the future may have had a one night stand, or experimented with women, or had groupsex, or has done anal. You just won't ever 100% know.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I agree with her.

This_is_my_username · Answer

It's a dumb reason dude. That happened in the past. You were her present. That's like crying over spilt milk..

meatballs21 · Answer

Her past hurts your present how, exactly?

JustinTheGreat · Answer

It's a dumb reason to dump her. I mean I would understand if she still waned to have threesomes and you didn't like her wanting that. But that was the past. If she's a changed person then I don't see the problem

wolfe88061 · Answer

It is a very dumb reason to leave someone but it's all good because she dose not need to date a dumbass that is so self centered anyways hopfaly she has some one to tell her that

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

That's really crazy but who cares what I think about you life mate

theCatcherintheRye · Answer

It's her past, dude. Chill.

JSmuve · Answer

I feel fine with you dumping your girlfriend for this specific reason.

Nuala · Answer

That's totally okay, if you don't want to date a girl who's had a threesome that's your right. But I (and most girls) don't date guys who dump girls for stupid reasons.