Ladies, I am very confused. Can you explain the following to me?

I suppose that most of you are getting tired of my "Bad Boy" questions by now, but I simply don't understand the following at all and would therefore be happy to hear your opinions again.

As always, I beg you to either answer 100% honestly, or if you can't or don't want to, then please don't answer at all! Everything else confuses me and makes it unnecessarily hard for me.

Based on my previous questions about the "bad boy phenomenon" I have found out that most women consider bad boys to appear very attractive, at least in a purely sexual perspective.
However, in my poll: "Which one of these two men appears more attractive to you as a one-night stand / fuckboy?"

1. "Bad Boy" Jeremy Meeks or
2. "Surfer Boy" Jay Alvarez

Jay Alvarez is clearly in the lead.
(see: Which one of these two men appears more attractive to you as a one-night stand / fuckboy? ↗

In my opinion, he does not look like a bad boy at all, but rather boyish/cute.

So I have the following questions for you:
1. Do you think Jay Alvarez looks more boyish/cute or more like a bad boy, or neither?
2. do you find boyish looking men even more attractive than bad boys?
3. would you consider Jay Alvarez to be even more attractive if you found out that he is a bad boy in real life although he doesn’t look like one?
4. do you have any other explanation why Jeremy Meeks did so much worse in my poll than Jay Alvarez, even though so many women claim that Jeremy Meeks is extremely attractive?

I don't care at all what the result of my questions will be, I just want to know the truth!
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  • I like how Jeremy looks, but I’m not into the criminals, so ultimately I don’t like him

  • Jeremy Meeks is the ultimate king of bad boys

    • @phoenixal Yes for sure. But why is he then considered as less attractive by most women?

    • I don't know but here in Europe he is considered like that. I mean he is known not that other guy

  • It has nothing to do with good or bad; its all charisma. Bad boys tend to get attention because they are overtly confident, flirty and charismatic, that is all. If a 'good guy' is equally as charismatic, then he will get just as much positive attention. It just tends to be the case that selfish people have lower inhibitions and so tend to project more confidence.

    • @bakingperfectionist Thanks for your opinion!

  • Jeremy Meeks is attractive, but his bad past makes him less attractive. Most girls aren’t attracted to guys who are criminals, it’s just that some criminals happen to be physically attractive. Being ‘bad’ in itself isn’t attractive, otherwise every random criminal would be considered hot

    • @bellablake I agree with you, if a man is unattractive, there's no point in being a bad boy. But if the man is attractive to women anyway, being a bad boy will make him even more attractive.

  • What's your obsession or problem with who most girls like.

    Did you know we are all unique and have our own taste in everything...

    • @bernys777 Of course we all have our personal preferences and tastes, but there are also some things that are not just personal preferences but overarching attractiveness ideals and these apply to almost all women or at least more than 90%. We are all unique, but most of us have two arms one nose and one mouth. And it's the same with women and the bad boy topic in my opinion. Almost all women find them hot. Even if some won't admit it. I am exaggerating a bit. It is not the same like being born with 2 arms and so on but I guess that bad behavior was evolutionary beneficial and therefore still looks attractive to most woman.

  • Im actually unattracted to bad boys who cannot commit. We're not kids, time to man up. Unless ofc that's what he wants in his life, as long as he's honest and not misleading/leading you on just to use you for sex.

  • I absolutely HATE bad boys and the bad boy wannabes. Absolutely 0 attraction to that type.

    • @babygirl_s Not at all? Not even on a purely sexual level?

    • @babygirl_s Still curious about your opinion 🙂

  • bad boys = assholes

    • @abbie_wright bad boys = assholes = women want to fuck with them

    • Cleary I dont

    • Ok good 🙂

  • hello!! hope I will tell you the right way

  • ❤Jay Alvarez❤
    1st Boyish cute
    2nd boyish is better but better have a grown attitude
    3rd no wouldent be interested if he had a actuall bad past that shit comes back
    4th just the photo looks off putting like dont come near me and im abusive other hand jay looks welcoming and adventurouse with life ahead of him

    • @user34016 Thanks for your opinion!

  • Do your homework, Tony.

    • This is my homework. I learn for life