This is a serious question.
Personally, its one of my biggest fears. The thought makes me physically sick. Women are taught prevention safety tips and dos and donts. For example, walking in pairs at night. I feel like in that situation all a man would have worry about is maybe being mugged or physically assaulted. But men, do you ever feel at risk in any situation about being raped by another man or stronger woman?
Men, do you ever fear being sexually assaulted?
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1 39No lol. I DARE someone to try.
I don't live in fear because I bothered to take martial arts for 11 years.
ever heard of guns
Let the dumbass shoot me. He'll be go "missing", my local friends are well connected & vengeful. He wouldn't be the first one killed by them.
If they connected and you not they wouldn't care. I doubt there connected probably just sell pounds got guns think they connected. Also your friends wouldn't neccesarily know who did it
*shrugs* whatever you say.
You like act tough online cause you know some guy sells packs
Why do you want someone to try tho?
@jackiejaii So I can destroy them of course.
@juxtapose are you being ironic nobody jacks people alone and you lie have "connected" friends what tf your friends connected to
@juxtapose unless you starting fight/jump martial arts not very useful
I never think about it because I always have a weapon on me
No, I am the predator so I dont fear shit like this. Plus, its easy asf to defend yourself just carry a knife with you and ure good
I carry knives and you're the predator?
Yeah I am the predator
Elaborate
Predator, definition: "an animal that naturally preys on others"
In the sense yes but in the context I'm talking about you're calling yourself a sexual predator and I was basically asking you to clarify or explain that
Well, well... you see, a woman will never be able to rape me because Im 6ft2 and too strong. So, in a sense, I am the menace, the threat. I am comparable to a predator in that sense, capiche?
I think predator is the wrong term to use for you
No no I think its the right term, because Im a potential sexual predator
I feel like you either are or you aren't?
Every man CAN choose to become a sexual predator, its just a matter of choice. So every man is a potential rapist u see?
Not really
I've never given it a moment's thought. I'm more worried about being randomly mugged or stabbed.
Specially from a woman. I can hit guys so that's one advantage I have from them unlike women being the perpetrator. It doesn't matter of she's stronger or not. She can easily gaslight me by playing the victim.
I don’t. And unfort for your age and gender you should be worried and I’m sorry. But rape is about power. Not sex.
buy a knuckle knife and go for the throat and groin.
Sadly you're right, I'll be moving out on my own to a new City next year so I'm looking to buy a gun. I already have a few knives and brass knuckles but I don't want to feel defenseless
I had a naughty babysitter when I was 7
Nope I'm fat and fuck ugly. No one is raping me.
No. I think most men dont worry about their own safety. You'd think we would considering violence happens to men more often but no.
I think it's because men natrually defend those around them. Say a man and woman are walking down a dark street and a group a guys try to attack them. That man is more likely to beat himself up if something happens to her than he is if he's hurt.
Sure. But even if I'm by myself out at night, it just doesn't occur to me that someone would jump me. If it happens then I guess I'll just have a fight
i dont think a girl can sexually assult a guy... so nope im not worried about it
Been there. DM me if you have questions.
No I don't fear it. I was experimenting in my 20s and met a guy off craigslist. We discussed giving him a blowjob and it was my first time to do it. He was a man in his 50s and he ended up holding me down and forcibly had rough anal sex with me for what seemed like an hour. Came inside me, laughed and called me a good bitch, slapped my ass hard and told me to shower and stood in the bathroom watching me and laughing about how loud he had made me scream when he would make me take him all.
I was so scared he wasn't going to let me leave. I ended up sucking him off before I got my clothes back and he said leave.
That didn't scare?
Like that something like that could happen?
I don't put myself in those situations and I'm not a little weak guy. He was just a really big guy and I was so nervous I didn't realize what was happening until he was holding my neck and pulling my jeans down. I don't think it'll happen again.
I'm still sorry that you experienced that. Did you report it?
No. I couldn't. I was embarrassed enough that I even went to meet him at all.
I think you should speak to someone. There may be other people he's done this to
I tried to message you
I'll add you
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Added you again
I messaged you
Rape doesn't happen to women just walking at night its usually (when not in jail) bfs husbands or friends. There's no dos and donts how not be raped and safety tips its not something you control.
For sure yes. Especially because I am a short male
That's reasonable, stay safe please
Yeah... also I'd like to add that I am skinny
So your size is against you, please carry a weapon of some kind when you're alone
Umhmm. by the way do you think I am more likely to be sexually assaulted by the other bigger males or females?
Well typically women drug guys so they can rob them. Usually when a woman is a rapist it's because she's involved with an underaged boy. But a woman can also assault you with any unwelcome touching. As far as bigger men I guess you're at risk if you were in prison or in an extreme situation but in general you'd be slightly less at risk than a female of your size.
Yes. Ok. by the way how tall are you?
On a good day 5'2ft
Me too 😊 What is your weight?
I don't know but I'm an average build Slightly overweight
Umhmm Sp do you think I am very small?
I couldn't say. I don't know know enough about you
You know my height
I just know you're small, but I don't know your exact height
I said am 5'2 as well
Oh yea well for a man or woman that is particularly small
i know men have been an can be, but honestly i feel its so rare that you need to drop the fear, its rare a man would dare try that on a man, an even rarer for a woman to rape a man... be safe but lose the fear, truly.
oops thought you're a man it showed another guys thing as i commented im confused sorry
That is a totally sexist statement. So do you think its no big deal if a male hers raped
Ya, I really got scared a lot. It happened with me 1 time. It was a younger woman.
I'm here if you want to talk about it
I don't worry much about sexual assault, but I do worry about physical assault or violence considering men are the victims far more often than women.