Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Men: do you think some men use having “blue balls” as a way to guilt trip or is it really that painful?
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Is blue balls really that painful to the point where life will end if you don’t finish, or is it guilt tripping because something went wrong at a time where he was ready to finish?
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0 24Total guilt trip. If it hurts so bad why doesn't he masturbate to finish?
Maybe I've never actually had it (?), but I don't get "painful". It's frustrating, uncomfortable, but not painful. But maybe I've never actually experience it? It's certainly not pleasant in any way though. Probably similar to you getting really excited for him and it just stopped for whatever reason.
So do you think there’s men that use it to possibly guilt trip a woman? Like is it a feeling that you can get passed? I know you haven’t experienced it , so I’m not sure if that would affect your answer
Well if I haven't experienced it, then I would like to know what I'd have to do to experience it lol. Guilt tripping... that's hard to say. I mean, maybe but not necessarily intentionally per say. Like it might depend on the specific circumstances also and they guy. I think the term "blue balls" simply means sexually frustrated. Got all turned on and no "release". So try to reverse it and how you would feel if you were him? You might try to "convince" or persuade the guy also? Maybe not so much "guilt"? But, some guys maybe it's intentional? I wouldn't be surprised. But how you'd tell the difference? I guess the specific guy (does he seem like that type in general?), and circumstances.
Honestly I think using pain as an excuse or convince is guilt tripping lol I am just asking because I had an ex do this to me even though I wasn’t the faults of his blue balls and there would be times he would curse me out because of them, even though they weren’t my fault. He had surgery on his dick for whatever reason and he would get blue balls on his own. It was weird, but Anyways it seemed like it just sounded painful
Maybe it was something from the surgery, and not what he thought? And lets say it is painful (which I doubt), to curse you out? Sounds like a real looser regardless? lol And I guess if women actually do feel guilty? I think many wouldn't care? LOL Or more specifically, does the guilt tripping (if that's what it is) actually work for him? I doubt it lol.