Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health MEN: how do you feel when you fail at making a woman orgasm?
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does the type of relationship, or lack of an actual relationship with her, matter/change how it makes you feel?
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6 29I feel guilty because I had orgasm and she did not have. Then I feel satisfied and she has to go to sleep (we usually sex before sleeping) horny, and I know how unpleasant feeling is it to go to sleep unsatisfied. But she is nice when she feels I am sorry, and refuses my fingers with words - tomorrow morning you strike back :)
lol, ok.
Never had that problem, but, if i did I would be mortified for my pleasure is derived from giving pleasure
I'm a woman, because if that does happen I won't either and we try again later
I feel the same way I do when I fail at making a square triangle. If you fail at the impossible, it isn't your fault.
How are we supposed to know since they're all apparently so good at faking them?
I've never faked. I prefer to be honest no matter what. if I don't enjoy what's going on I make suggestions. if ignored, I let it be known it's not doing anything for me.
... also, while anyone can fake moan, no one can fake the contracting/pulsating that the vagina does during an actual orgasm. ;)
@Asker Some seem to think they can fake that.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1389167-girls-if-you-re-faking-an-orgasm-do-you-squeeze-contract-your-vagina
yeah its a very bad feeling. when you orgasm early and unable to satisfy her. i also had those episodes 4-5 times in a row. i had premature ejac**tion which is really bad for the girl as she is not satisfied till then.
you never did foreplay?
yeah I do foreplay like pressing the bo*bs and kissing. does this help in a girl's orgasm? what more should I do?
it's alright as long she's not complaining
so, basically you don't care.
kind of. I do my best to excite her as much as i can tho. There's not much else i can do. I'm not gonna feel guilty for this.
I voted D as the options don't fit. (Not that D does either...)
It would be something between A and C. Some women orgasm more easily than others - I wouldn't blame her if I didn't orgasm, so I don't see why her not orgasming should be completely my fault. I would however feel inadequate to an extent and also bad about orgasming without being able to get her off.
How do you think a guy should feel?
I think most of these guys are lying, I don't think many women orgasm every time (without fail) they have sex.
I'm just curious. based on the sort of repetative questions we get from guys on here. a ton are either lying or have never gotten a woman to finish and don't know what it's like. lol
I mean I try to help a girl reach orgasm when we're having sex but there's no girl I've been with that managed it every time we had sex. The several guys claiming to have never failed I think are pulling themselves. Unless they've never had sex, then I guess they haven't failed either...
Going back in!
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until this happens
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Ha, pft.
I'd let some other guy that is more capable have her.
hahahaha! funniest response yet! :p