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  • Be truthful if he asks if you like what he's doing.
    Let him know what you like and don't like. Or if he needs to adjust a little bit to hit that special spot for you.
    If he's spending 2hrs giving you several orally, at least return the favor.
    No should never be the first word out of your mouth. I'm not saying that you can't say no, at least communicate about it and make an informed decision. If you say no, instantly every time he would like to try something new, he'll quit trying.
    Let him know if it's to hard or soft.
    If you're mad at him, do not hold back sex. It should never be used like that or as a weapon.
    Becareful of his ego, it is more fragile than even we know.
    Initiate the the activity at least half the time, if you make us start every time, it makes us think that you're just doin it for us and we're gonna do us and you're not gonna get what you need.
    You don't always have to do it in the bedroom on the bed. Be adventurous,
    Give up some quickies, a quickie usually has rewards later in the nite, cause we always want more.
    Don't freak out if we gets handsy when you're in public, return the favor. If you sneak a handful of his cock while nobody's looking, rub up against him, that will get his drive goin to plow that garden.
    Talk dirty to him, the nastier the better and not just during sex. Also encourage him to do it too. Whisper something in his ear when you're out on the town. If you whisper to him that you can't wait to taste him in your mouth and then you're gonna suck his soul out through his cock, guaranteed to have his attention.
    If the 2 of you have been playing this game of preforplay (my term) while you have been out on the town partying, when you get home, don't just go into bed and go right to sleep.(that's a really shitty thing to do). I've done a couple of things that weren't nice after that's happened to me, they were equally as shitty.

    Sorry got a little long there.

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  • Be genuine. Be open-minded. Be enthusiastic, communicate your preferences. 🙂

Most Helpful Girl

  • I know I am a lady but my advice is to communicate. Have open and honest communication from both sides. That will yield the most pleasurable result for both of you. :)

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  • Make sure he wears a condom, has a sex health check.
    that you can trust him, he fully understands consent and respect.
    that you err on the side of caution and keep safe.
    That at anytime No means No and they stop.

  • Actually give a damn.

  • Masturbate learn what gets you off and what feels best for you there is nothing hotter than a woman who knows what she wants compared to a woman who wants something but rely's on you to figure out what that is?

  • If you are performing oral, ignore any advice involving use of your teeth. DO NOT use your teeth, a man might pretend it’s ok, but it’s painful

  • Fuck everybody you want, but don't get pregnant, or get a STD.

  • Whatever you're doing, enjoy it and have fun. If you're not enjoying what you're doing, try doing something else.

  • Only have sex with someone you love and that loves you and don't do hook ups/ONS/friends with benefits/casual stuff.

  • Follow the 10-date rule. 10 dates he pays for and provides transportation to public venues before you have intercourse. Walking the bases in the mean time is OK.

    • what do you do when you're married 😭

    • Lay by the hole and whine til she lets you in!! lol

  • Be confident in taking the lead and asking for what you want

  • Don't fake orgasms. Communicate instead what feels good. The best sex is based on being open about what does or doesn't feel good. It's a win-win situation.

  • Always use protection 😂

  • No penis penetration until he's made you cum with his fingers and tongue.
    I try for around 5 before I ever think about sliding into home base.

    It's just a good rule to have.
    A guy who's a good oral giver is just a more attentive lover. Encourage that, let him know how he's doing and especially when he's doing it right.
    It will pay off in the long run.

    • I was taught this by an older woman when I was pretty young. It has always worked for me with a lot of repeating friends.

    • @Shortman70 👍👍👍 I don't know why men don't want happy women...🙄

    • Right! If you do them right, they will be back and when they come back it gets better. And better each time they return is better. Then their telling their friends. Just as well do it right, cause if you suck at fuckin, their gonna tell their friends that too and there won't be any fun.

  • communication is key and if you want it, show that you want it. if you like it, show that you like it and act as if you like it.

    cause the best thing in my opinion is when you as a man notice that she likes what i do and works with me.

  • Enthusiasm goes a long way.

    Also, don't use your teeth while giving head.

  • Not be lazy. Put effort into it. Don't say annoying insecure things. Don't have a bad attitude. Be sexy for your man.

  • Communicate, communicate, communicate.

  • Don't have high expectations.

  • Embrace your femininity and sexuality nothing to be ashamed of and don't let society rule over your personal life or your love life

  • Just actually participate, don't be like a dead fish.

  • Show guys where your clitoris is.

    • Maybe an arrow tattooed pointing it out to help some guys lol

    • @integrale77 No tattoo

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