Men, what is your opinion on slow sex? Women, do you prefer slow sex?

Hi everyone!

I was having sex with my partner earlier and I realized that I can only cum in missionary position when he thrusts really slowly. It feels great, but I wonder if he enjoys it as much as I do. I could easily ask him but I was wondering what people thought about it in general. Women, do you enjoy slow sex? Men, do you get bored by it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Pretty much 99% chance he doesn't enjoy it as much as you do, in my opinion. I wouldn't, anyway. I've had women ask me for that, before, and I can barely keep an erection because it's so slow.

    Tantric sex can be great, don't get me wrong. But it requires a lot of discipline and holding back. It can build a much more powerful orgasm; but, in the meantime, it's pretty boring. Guys like it best when it's fast, going all the way up and all the way down, as fast as possible.

    Grinding is okay, too, but not as good as it is for women. The up and down motion is pretty important. That said, if his dick is in your pussy, it feels good. It's just depend on *how* good.

    You can mess around with the angles in other positions, maybe get something similar, generally you'll probably enjoy positions which have a lot of skin-to-skin contact most, with him sort of controlling your body or holding it close to his.

    That said, he will still enjoy it. Just trade off. You get yours, then he gets his, then everyone wins. Even if you don't get off on the same thing.

    • Thanks for your response! We were both able to cum at the same time which is good. We don’t always do this position. He always makes sure I cum before he does and we often do positions he enjoys once I’m done. So it’s a pretty good balance. For instance, when I start cumming he picked up the pace so that he would be able to as well, so it wasn’t all slow.

    • Men, what is your opinion on slow sex? Women, do you prefer slow sex?

  • I've seen studies that show that the female orgasms cum hardest when the stroke/thrust rate is about 1.7 per second. That's nice and slow. When my lady starts cumming, I slow down to as close to that rate as I can get and watch her fly. It's wonderful.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope. My partner and I don't really enjoy slow sex at all. I prefer deep fast hard thrusting. He will only go slow so that he doesn't cum too fast but that's about it. So ya, not really a fan. Doesn't feel that good and quite boring as well.

    • So u like hardcore?

    • Yes, I love it very rough.

  • I love slow sex. It allows me to feel it better because too fast and it just gets numb down there. Even if I use lube.
    I love intimacy

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  • Both andante and allegro are fine with me. 😆

    Most of the time, in a single session, I like to do doggy a little slower, then when she concludes in cowgirl, she is faster.

    So I my sex is usually a mix of tempos. More interesting and have more senses triggered.

  • Slow sex is more romantic, sensitive and if allows thw romance to take place even during the burning desire of sex. It allows to feel the sensation on my cock and inside her pussy.

    It lets me play with all her body parts with ample time and dedicatiom, but to cum I have to go faster at the finish line.

  • I honestly get more pleasure out of knowing my partner is having a good time as well. So for me if i was that guy if i waz getting close to orgasm I would finish in missionary for her to be able to get off as well.. Just my option

  • Disgusting, should be castrated.

  • I personally prefer slower sex.
    I actually think orgasm from slower stimulation lasts longer and is better.
    But I would give others a pass, I didn't know about that for most of my life either.

  • Yeah slow sex is good for a little while but if we want to cum we do need to pick up the pace a bit

  • It can be great but it depends on the mood. My girlfriend often goes slow while on top to tease me, but it feels great.

  • I do enjoy it. Feels very intimate but as far as cumming goes I wouldn't be able to unless with clit stimulation

  • If I can keep a pace where my arousal stays even, I stay hard and I know I can sprint to orgasm when I want to, slow and easy relaxed and romantic. But in the end, I have to rock and roll to finish. Not rough, just fast and strong.

  • It's rather a mood. Sometimes I'm very much in the mood for it and I love it. If I'm asked for it, I'd definitely do it and enjoy it, if only because she wants it and enjoys it.

  • I prefer edging

  • Love slow sex.

    Much more sensual and passionate

  • it is very good for edging. i think if you go slow, you can create way more explosive orgasmns. however it's not fun to always be slow.

  • I always start slowly, end up with wild sex. Momentum increases gradually. My partner get good time to fully participate and get easy orgasm.

  • Love it

  • Depends on mood

  • I love slow sex. From penetration inch by inch, the we both move slowly. However, as I get close to cumming, I automatically switch gears and go faster and faster. Think that is what makes me cum

  • its boring if it lasts too long.

  • I find slow works well to start and once you can get into the rythem of it and go faster it makes it a lot hotter

  • I may start slow but i have urge to dominate woman during sex. I like rough so do most women.

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