My boyfriend always wants to eat me out is that weird?

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NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

No. I've seen (and heard) enough cases of "my boyfriend refuses to eat me out" to think it's anywhere near universal, but I've encountered several guys who approach it with near-religious devotion that creeps even ME out (and I'm quite the enthusiast).

Oral sex lets you focus completely on your partner's pleasure, and it can really bring a sense of joy to make someone you care about so much feel so good. It can actually feel kind of liberating to not have to worry about your own pleasure, since that's not what's happening at the moment (if that sounds incomprehensible, remember those last three words; taking the time to make a single encounter about her (or him) isn't a permanent thing). It's also incredibly intimate; sometimes even more than penetrative sex. And a tongue is a much more precise manipulator than a penis or a vulva; you can learn all SORTS of fun things about how to make your partner squirm. If you've never experienced the thrill of giving an orgasm so intense that he forgets how words work, I HIGHLY recommend you take the time to try it. It can be even more fun than getting one.

I don't know how much of an overlap there is with women on this specific point, but for a guy, there's also the aspect of not having to worry about penis issues. It's a very temperamental organ, and if doesn't feel like playing along, it'll stay soft, and then (if she's not very experienced), she'll think you don't like her, or don't find her attractive. I imagine hearing "Well, it happens to everyone- pass me that vibrator" would be emotionally devastating. And I don't think saying it would be much fun, either. Oral to the rescue!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's not weird. From what I've read on GAG, many girls would be happy if they had a boyfriend that would do it.

MizPeaches · Answer

I’d say you’re lucky if he’s good at it.

blank_expression · Answer

I can’t tell if it is weird because I have become addicted to a few. I have caught a girlfriend’s scent off my hand, headed out and came back because it gave me a hard-on. Unless he is just trying to impress you or something weird, maybe he is just matched to your pheromones.

summiter · Answer

Just enjoy the great orgasms! Do you return the favor sometimes?

spartan55 · Answer

Wait until you are with a guy who refuses to do it... then you will appreciate it... take the win.

I can't ever in a million years see myself asking... Man, she sure loves giving me blowjobs, is that weird?

Leavesbound · Answer

I don't find it weird but then he's engaged in my favorite hobby.

AndyOh · Answer

Nope, I eat out my girlfriends all the time. I LOVE it!

slatyb · Answer

No ta not. How do you feel about it? Maybe he’s a bit submissive and would love for you to sit on his face. Ask him if you can do it without being judgmental.

GenaBaby1995 · Answer

Lucky, wish I had a boy toy that only did that

exitseven · Answer

Not at all. It is normal.

John83 · Answer

I don't think it's weird. I am really turned on by going down on my girlfriend and want to do it often.

Andres77 · Answer

Not weird at all. Enjoy it.

OutWestBandit · Answer

i love eating pussy... its just nice. some guys never want to eat pussy

thotmas97 · Answer

Not really. Maybe a bit uncommon, I think it’s more common than not to not be super keen on giving oral all the time, regardless of gender.

Still-alive · Answer

why is that weird? just enjoy it

Jerre · Answer

I don’t think it’s weird at all. Most guys love eating pussy. That is part of my foreplay before she gets my cock.

Pterodon · Answer

Very normal

2021biguy · Answer

Not if you're cute and sexy :)

CreamySeed · Answer

This is me too

Waldoe · Answer

nope... teach him well, his future girlfriend's will thank you...

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Nope

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