My boyfriend caught me masturbating. I FEEL SO EMBARRASSED. What Do I Do?

So my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. We decided 3 weeks ago that we will move in together. The first day of us living together he caught me in the act. He came home from work early that's how he caught me. He told me that it was okay. But im really insecure about it. He wants me to do in front of him now.. WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It is no big deal... do not be embarrassed. I'm sure he is masturbating also (even though he will never admit it) I have masturbated next girlfriends while she did the same... it is way hot! Don't be afraid to have some fun and try different things... and it is ok to talk about sex with him. What are your thoughts?

  • Why would you be insecure and embarrassed, that is so hot. And what should you do? Do it in front of him now! That is something I ask all my girlfriends to do :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Both of you can masturbate , equal is the answer! But if you really do not want to, just tell him, as a boyfriend he will not force you.. I hope

  • I wouldn't feel embarrassed! He must have really liked walking in on that since he wants you to do it in front of him now.

  • Just do it again to show him you find it a normal thing and nothing to be ashamed off.

    • Its nothing to be ashamed of. We all do it

    • 83 yeah message me

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  • Lol do it while you know he's in the house
    He will enjoy it

  • Why would you be embarrassed? It is awesome to sit back and watch my woman do that. What a HUGE turn on. What should you do? get out your favorite dildo and vibrator and go at it...

    • I didn't want him to think i am nymphomanic i just have sexual urges

    • Why wouldn't you want that? guys masturbate. esp at your age. A lot more then women. He would not care if you thought that about him.

    • Yea.. your right I think about him when i do it anyways

  • Ask him if he could lend you a hand?

  • just apologize and b careful.. masturbate only when u are solo 8)

  • You shouldn't be embarrassed at all! If i walked in on my girlfriend masturbating, I might join her and help her finish. Its nothing to be ashamed about because its completely normal, and it can in fact be a turn on to do it in front of him :)

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  • awe you shouldn't be embarrassed i know how it feels
    i totally respect girls who want explore their self that way

  • No need to be embarrassed. Most guys like seeing that. If you're going to be in a sexual relationship and living with him, you might want to work up the confidence to masturbate in front of him again. It can be a huge turn on for both people. Can you explain why you're insecure about it?

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  • He wants a free show now

  • You should do it in front of him.

  • Do it in front of him or do it together

  • let him watch

  • Dude that is hot. Chillax! :)

  • Its completely normal... and its kinda hot to see your girlfriend masturbating in front of you.. LOL

    Why are you so embarrassed?

    • But what makes it hot

  • LOL it's your boyfriend, not your family

  • Meh, when you gotta you just gotta.

  • Why feel embarrassed if he is your boyfriend and he masturbates as well? Don't you guys share this sort of stuff by any chance?

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  • Most men don't view female masterbation the same way that most women view male masterbation... A lot of guys think it's hotter than the sun...

  • He probably BEATS HIS MEAT LIKE IT OWES HIM MONEY. Don't feel insecure because he does it too.

    • Hahahah omg this made me laugh so hard everyone is starting to stare

  • Well if u don't want to do it don't do it if he's any kind of a guy he would understand

  • do it in front of him

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