My boyfriend compares my body with a pornstar?

[Starwitch23]

Is this compliment or disrespect?

[stratford]

It could mean a lot of things.

It means he likes porn and may be watching porn while he is not with you.

He may be into you because it allows him to live his fantasy of being with his favorite porn star, so he is not really 'seeing you' if that makes sense.

It might just be a passing comment designed to make you feel good about yourself, especially if you like watching porn together.

If you are happy and open in your relationship and both enjoying your sex life, I wouldn't read to much into it.

Side note, if you look like the girl in the picture, he is a very lucky guy to be with you :-)

[TheorionMage]

A fundamental baseline compliment.

'Porn stars' are 'performance artists' largely paid proportionally to the $$$ volume of audience fantasy and allure their appearance and behavior inspires. You're being told you CONTROL a powerful inspirational motivator, what you should DEMAND to have your 'companionship' is the 'price'. I'm certain as a female in her prime, you are fundamentally AWARE your allure is in AFFECT, 24/7/365 and you employ common sense physical safeguards day-to-day. Its ALWAYS 'socially-valued' and your 'freedom' to ignore THAT, is largely dependent upon how aware and competent you are at defending and enforcing your personal physical sovereignty~

Females who possess such perishable physical assets logically have a 'best if used by' date so... 'gather Ye rosebuds, whilst Ye may'... appreciating each other's character interests grows in the carnal 'afterglow' when the moaning and convulsing spasms are satiated.

[Daniela1982]

Depends on what part of you he is referring to. If he is talking about your ring piece that is not saying much.

[IveGotNoName]

I think any comparing between you and other girls is offensive.

[ohsheeT]

Well that's no fair saying something like that and then not letting us see okay to answer your question it depends on who your boyfriend is maybe he means it as a compliment it just depends on who he is maybe he just thinks you are fine and you are naughty you are his girl it can mean a hundred different things really

[JustAnj]

Depends on his intention and how it made you feel.

[katiesmuff]

It's likely a compliment as most porn stars do look pretty damn good.

[Shadowrunneruk]

Compliment. Definitely.

[summiter]

A bit of both. He should not compare. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

[blarenbond]

If he finds the pornstar attractive I would say that's a compliment

[Starwitch23]

🤔okay

[blarenbond]

The most important question of course is, do you find it a compliment?

[bubblegunnn]

He madly loves ur body

[normalice]

It is wishful thinking as he wants to compare your behavior to a porn star.

[Starwitch23]

Fair point 🤔

[Finchie40]

Then your boyfriend is a douche bag , he should be only valuing you not comparing you , when people compare their partners to others they are setting themselves up for disaster , it’s disrespectful and shows that person only really cares about themselves , if I was you I would dump his ass and find a man that values you because how would he feel if you compared him to another guy? So again he is wrong in every aspect

[PJH359]

It’s a compliment but it’s really corny as hell. There are thousands of ways to compliment how a woman looks without injecting an underground smut industry. Tell him to go to Walmart and buy some class. I got mine at Target. Interest piqued…feel free to send pics.

[NathanDavis]

I guess that's up to you...

I could think of some ways in which this could be taken as compliment, but I could also think of many ways in which this would be disrespectful and wrong... lol

what matters is how you feel about it

personally, and based on experience with my girlfriends... I would just not compare them to any other women in the first place, lol

[ManOnFire]

Her name is Mia Khalifa. She actually grew up in my area. I've never been into her and not a fan of her pornos. You're more attractive than she is.

[fivesixbombai]

You are Lebanese?

[ManOnFire]

@fivesixbombai Not at all. She lived here in America.

[Mangospacho]

Dude. You’re from MoCo?

[likelyOK]

It sounds disrespectful no matter what!! Even if he meant it as a compliment. It’s honestly a 🚩 🚩

[ALPHABLACK]

I think he was being sarcastic I mean not in the hellhounds of hell can mistakenly think you are better than her

Just to be clear I don't like her or anything I just hate all females and I don't think anyone can be better than anyone when all are bad its like comparing which dead body is more rotten out of 2 rotting dead bodies

[Echosoul]

You er need help

[ALPHABLACK]

@Echosoul I need to make a gene compound that Target only males and Kills them so that when there are only females left on this planet, let nature and God sort out the mess

[20yearsolder]

Typically pornstars have pretty nice bodies so I would think it's a compliment

[Sixgunsound]

It depends on if he is saying you are better or worse. Either way it shows what he thinks of when he sees you.

[AviatorTom]

I'm sure it's intended to be a compliment.

[mstbooblover]

That depends on the kind of relation you have with him. In his naïve mind he probably means it as a compliment, but I'm not sure most girls will appreciate.

[likelyOK]

I would not even call him naïve he sounds more toxic and perverted.

[mstbooblover]

@likelyOK Thinking of pornstars is not necessaryly being a pervert, rather inappropriate in some situations. Maybe he watched to much porn, as many people do, and I guess some take there their references, which is a bit silly. Whether the guy is toxic or not, you only can know. If you love each other, just talk to each other openly in order to clarify the situation.

[DJB72]

No. It's very disrespectful towards you.

[sheenagwapa]

compliment

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think you are prettier than the pornstar

[FunkyMonkee]

Male or female?

[anon1903]

It means you really know how to turn him on

[JessJJ]

Hopefully compliment

[Starwitch23]

🤔 yeah maybe

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Miss khalifa I'd hot, bit u personally wouldn't wanna be compared to a porn star

[Starwitch23]

Exactly

[JustADudePlayinADude]

I just realized there were a whole bunch of mistakes in that sentence lol.

[Starwitch23]

I got what you're saying 🤣

[exitseven]

it is a compliment.

[FilmGuy93]

Does he tell you that you look as good or better than her? Because if so, I'd have to think that's a compliment.

[Starwitch23]

He says I look like Mia but he doesn't like Mia.

[FilmGuy93]

Okay? That sounds like a criticism lol. Why would he be with you if he didn't find your "type" attractive?

[Starwitch23]

I sometimes think I am not his type. He wants me to change my appearance like he wants me to get nose piercing and get LASER treatment.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, that's probably not someone you should keep dating.

[genericname85]

compliment obviously. cause pornstars have desirable bodies. unless you have a painfully obvious breast enhancement xD in that case it's an insult.

[MysticDevice]

I hope he means just based on looks cause I do see the resemblance. I'm sure he meant it as a compliment but being compared to a porn star has some sketchy undertones to it. I would totally get it if that annoyed you.

[Starwitch23]

Yeah is he expecting me to behaving like a porn star?

[MysticDevice]

I would hope not. Thats what I meant by sketchy undertones. Though I wouldn't be surprised if he saw something in porn and just wants to try it out.

[Part2603]

I'm gonna level with you honey. Yes. Every guy wants his girl to satisfy him sexually. So maybe no, since pornstars satisfy the entire town sexually. We fantasize about girls being eager and submissive lovers. We don't fantasize about the drama and the blase, dismissive attitude towards sex. Or maybe he does. Maybe he's strictly casual. But what I'm trying to get at is that just because he might say that you look like Mia Khalifa or whatever, that doesn't necessarily mean that he might think of your as cheap or easy, it could just mean that he likes your body. Also it's probably just a shit test. Usually girls are the ones that do it, but I suppose it's kind of more like a neg, or playful teasing. He's making sexual innuendo. He's trying to get you jelly. Perhaps your sexual inhibitedness is exactly why he's doing it. He's incepting this idea into your brain, hoping that you will be sexy for him.

[likelyOK]

Sketchy 🎯 YES

[Andrew2128]

Well you kind of look like one if that's your real photo

[TacosRAwesome]

Compliment if the pornstar is hot.

[JPresidente]

I would consider it a compliment. 🔥😉

[AndrésC64]

It sounds like he's trying to give you a compliment, but you're the one that needs to decide.

[kellytheman]

It depends how he said it and what you think of a pornstars. I just take it as a compliment for now because he might think he's calling you pretty or sexy because some pornstars are but I tell him maybe not doing that cause most pornstars are fake also.

[Keepitreal007]

Disrespectful unless you’re going for that look but from the picture you look very nice and not like a porn star.

[Wise4myage]

Compliment for sure.

[Wise4myage]

Love your glasses.

[Philyouup]

if it’s nice. A compliment

[Valso]

Mia Khalifa ain't that pretty, so I wouldn't take it as a compliment.

[motownplayer2000]

I don't know, I think a compliment. However, now you know who he is also masturbating too. And watching those videos of

[AimeeKyle]

I would say from your pic that it’s a compliment.

[Deepinthought345]

Well if it is her, it is a compliment as I would see. And he isn't wrong.

[Jamesshinobi]

id say its a compliment. you get him hot and bothered.

[boobliker]

ask him if he rides you like a train, but they do say cook in kitchen nany with the kids and a whore in the bedroom so I would say it a complement

[Mangospacho]

Well, that is a picture of a porn star so it’s probably a compliment.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Comparing is not good, but don’t confuse it with contrasting.

[Starwitch23]

Okay 🤔

[maximumpower]

Depends upon the type of porn he's into.

[legalboxers]

-blinks- massive compliment

[Twalli]

Compliment

[alance99]

Getting comapred to a model or actress would be much better than a porn star, i may be wrong with thought process

[Nigjt]

If an when I tell a Woman something like that it's always a good thing it's just like telling a Woman she is the one who can suck ur Cock then very best or that she has the best head u have ever had in ur life or even saying Damn girl u got that jam Pussy.
God Bless

[dean53AU]

You remind me of a pornstar I've seen before,, beautiful body, pretty face, take it as a compliment 😊

[Starwitch23]

Thank you ❤

[dean53AU]

Your welcome

[dean53AU]

That's a pic of Mia Kahlifa the pornstar

[xJayleenx]

What exactly did he say?

[TallAnon]

Neither, guys often just make assessments without much thought behind it.
Who did he compare you with? Mia Khalifa?

[mT2359]

Compliment

[In_Trance]

Is he trying to tell you that he's bored because he's watching a lot of porn?

[nawtee_me]

I don’t see you as a porn star but you are absolutely gorgeous

[htmndg183]

Not sure if it is a compliment or not. Certainly doesn't seem like one.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Compliment!

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

As he should

[msc545]

A sort of compliment depending on whether or not the pornstar has a nice body. Many do.

[Starwitch23]

Yeah true 🤔